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Posted by Anonymous on December 1, 2009 at 11:58 AM

When is it right to get out of a relationship? I don't really know what I'm doing. I don't feel connected to my boyfriend at all. We haven't been dating for too long, just past 6 months. I find a lot of things about him bother me suddenly. And he never seems to say anything right. I'm feeling like its my own doing, I don't think he's changed.

Is this something I should stick out? Or is it just not working out?

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  • Posted by Anonymous on May 20, 2010 at 8:49 PM
If you spend a lot of time together, try to see each other not as often as you are used to for a while. I remember that in my last relationship me and my boyfriend were together all the time, and we also fought a lot. Then there were times when we were busy and didn't have as much time to spend together, and that's the best times we had because we were so glad to see each other when we finally could and we didn't fight at all. It's only normal to be irritated at a person you are spending too much time with, whoever that is, your sibling, parent, friend or bf/gf :)
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  • Posted by Anonymous on January 29, 2010 at 6:53 PM
end it if your not feeling a connection. its not going to help just "sticking" it out. it just makes the break-up harder.
it might be hard but just listen to your heart. if its saying it wants something else its time.
Good luck ♥
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  • Posted by Anonymous on January 23, 2010 at 11:14 PM
u should talk to him about it
communication is the key
dah!
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It's right to get out of a relationship as soon as you're just not feeling it anymore.
I was in the same situation with my ex... And I stuck it out for a year. It just made breaking up in the end so much harder.
Explain to him how you're feeling, explain that it's not really him, and move on.
Like the person above me said, it's unfair for both of you.
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  • Posted by Anonymous on December 1, 2009 at 8:04 PM
i think its because you simply just dont want to be with him.
once every word a person makes becomes annoying to you for a long period of time its because you just arnt into him anymore.
i think you should address any issues that you guys havnt spoken about if there are any. if there arny any issues and you just dont feel for him then you should move on. if you address issues and work them out and you still feel the same then again, break up with him.

its unfair for the both of you if you guys stay together and one person isnt fully committed.
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if its not working end it, ive been there, and believe me the longer it drags out the worse u end up feeling.

the guy i was with i waited it out for because i thought...maybe one day i would love him? no it doesnt work, and things about him are annoying you, ur only gona end up fighting, shouting, and in the end hating each other.

of course in the end its up to u, but in my experiance, you should move on
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