I am newly married and my husband stays in touch with a few old girlfriends. They are still interested in him. He doesn't have many old girlfriends, but the ones he does have seem to mean a lot. He talks about how great they were and what they brought him in life. The problem for me is that I've dated cheaters so I get nervous. I try not to say anything and act cool about it, but it hurts to hear him talk about them or know he is talking to them. I am not regular friends with any old boyfriends ... even ones I could be, just because I don't really think it is good for a focused relationship. Am I crazy? He is really a wonderful husband, but I knew going into this it would be an issue so I shouldn't be surprised that it still is. Can they really be friends, or does he want something more?