Question: I have recently started to date a...

You don't have to sleep with this guy if you go. Fool around a bit. Never do anything you don't want to do though. Know though that he is most likely not going to be the one. You're young, and almost every guy you date or sleep with won't be the one.

I lost my virginity recently to a guy I had known for a half week or so and don't regret it.. But I was emotionally ready and the virginity thing had really been clouding my mind for years (I'm 19) and I always thought I would want to lose it to just a random guy.. Dunno why. We were seeing each other for a week then he dumped me and I really didn't get hurt or get second thoughts or anything. But really in my mind I'd have given my virginity away years earlier if I had had the chance, I have just always been a very shy girl so there hadn't really been anyone to do it with.. and now were maybe starting something again so lets see what will come. But if you think you don't want I think don't but if you partly feel ready I think seriously consider it and get over with it often you should just do things and not regret them :) Be emotionally prepared. Do a decision. But as said, you can't get it back so... I think sex doesn't always have to be such a big thing, you don't have to make it a big thing. I don't have experience really but I believe it can be a expression for your love and such things but it can also be just sex...

just keep in mind, once you lose your virginity you cant get it back.

I am not against premarital sex but if you have some uncertainty, then dont have sex. make sure you are actually ready. talk to him about it and if he is truly such a great guy, he will understand.

Do what you think is right, if you aren't 100% ready then you'll regret it, I'm sure. If you had no hesitations, then I'd say go for it, but the fact is, if you need someone elses opinion, it's probably not a good idea! You, and only you, can decide what is right for you. I'd discuss it with him before you go though, because he might just think, because you have agreed to go with him, you've agreed to sex too. Some guys would, although a lot wouldn't, but it is better to check that that's not what he thought, so it doesn't ruin your weekend cos he's sulking over it! 2mths isn't long, I'd wait till you've been together six months, OR until you are certain it's what you want. You don't have to do something you aren't ready for and he has to respect that. You won't enjoy it if you don't want to do it, either! Good Luck

duuuude!
if you think part of you is ready.. means that you ARE.
stop thinking about it too much...
and the sooner you do it.. the more time you'll enjoy it.. :D

Just get it over with!

My personal guideline in life is that if I'm hesitating (and it sounds like you are) then that is the little voice inside trying to tell me to wait. In almost every case you can ALWAYS do it later - whatever "it" is at the time. In your case it's something you can never take back, never change, never do over. You have the rest of your life to make your first time something special. Think about it.

you're obviously a virgin for a reason and two months doesn't seem like enough time to know someone well enough to give up something so precious to you. and you even dsaid in some ways you think you're not ready. if you have any doubt, then DON'T DO IT!.

I have been with my BF for 8 months and we know each other for almost 3 years... we have really strong relationship a i believe him and love him as much as i can.. but i have not had sex with him. and im not going to have it in at least next 6 months. i think emotional connection is something stronger than physical and it not depends on whather u will have sex with him or not. talk to him about it, u need to know his opinion. as someone said here, if he’s mr. right, we waits.