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Posted by Anonymous on December 16, 2009 at 4:36 PM

Am I alone on this but does anyone else feel like sex changes a relationship for you but not for guys? I feel like I become so much more attached and that the guy doesn't.

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It really depends on the person. I get somewhat attached when I have sex, but my current boyfriend (I was his first) got extremely attached and clingy. However my ex didn't get attached at all. It really just depends on the person.
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idk.. maybe you should tell him how you feel..
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idk.. maybe you should tell him how you feel..
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I seriously disagree. It does make girls attached. They even release a "cuddle hormone" called Oxytocin afterward that makes them want to cuddle! But I've had many relationships (and does sex matter to me emotionally), but the GUYS get WAY more clingy than I do in most of the relationships I have a had. It's ridiculous and I feel like a heart breaker, because I've had so many guys that started getting possessive and needy after sex. They needed me to spend the night or hang out with them more than three times a week and it became a turn off. And this has happened a lot and made them not attractive anymore. It was a great insight to how clingy girls turn off guys, but it definitely disproved the theories that guys are heartless heart breakers! They seem more emotional than girls when the do get emotionally attached after sex!
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  • Posted by Anonymous on January 9, 2010 at 1:14 AM
i once heard that the reason girls get attached to guys after sex is biological. a certain hormone is released in your body and this hormone creates a bond with the other person. this hormone is released during sex and childbirth i think.
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Guys want the chase. They will do whatever they can to get into your pants, even say 'I love you'. Once you let that man into your pants he's all set. He's gotten what he was chasing after and if you make yourself available at all times afterwords he will drop you like a bad habit. Most young guys don't want to be in relationships they just want to get you naked.

When you meet someone worthy of your love he won't run away. If you want a guy to stick around just be his friend first. Wait for him to really fall for you. Wait until you trust each other and feel safe.

Unfortunately you have to kiss a lot of stupid frogs until you get to a decent dude.
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  • Posted by Anonymous on December 30, 2009 at 10:55 AM
I have to disagree. It brought my boyfriend and I extremely close to one another. We have been together for almost 3 years.
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My boyfriend would seriously disagree that he only has sex for pleasure and nothing else. We've had this discussion and he honestly says when a guy really cares about a woman sex for the guy is just as meaningful as it is for the girl. Now I can say sometimes its more "meaningful" than others. But to make a blanket statement that its ONLY for pleasure.... that's demeaning to all men.
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  • Posted by Anonymous on December 21, 2009 at 5:49 AM
we women tend to attach emotion to everything that we do. guys do too just that they wont show it.
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  • Posted by Anonymous on December 21, 2009 at 5:49 AM
we women tend to attach emotion to everything that we do. guys do too just that they wont show it.
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