Question: Do you believe in "once a cheater,...

Yessss, I do. I have seen it with my sister's boyfriends who most turned out to cheat on her multiple times (she never listens to me.. even when I had proof!)
And heck, two of my ex's were cheaters and continuously cheated ... not just on me but their other women too.

It depends, really.

If it's someone that you know the history of, whom has constantly cheated on their girlfriends, of course, then once a cheater always a cheater.

But I have cheated myself, and I wouldn't do it again. And the only reason I had done it because it wasn't working anyways, and it had gotten to the point that the guy didn't give a sh*t if I cheated. So basically, you shouldn't give a reason for him to cheat in the first place? Unless the guy is a thick d*ckhead. Then in that case, you shouldn't date him anyway.

Mostly yes, but the best people can make mistakes! Once I almost cheated and it made me so miserable that now it's the reason that I will never cheat EVER, not under any situation. So if you can see that the person truly regrets it, then it was a mistake that he/she has learnt from, but if not I would not trust him/her :)

No, people make mistakes and I believe in second chances.

No, i dont believe in this because everyone is different. I have cheated before, and I wont do it again. Some poeple just odnt know what they want in life and thats why they cheat. Other people cheat because they can.

I don't believe in it. Yeah studies say if a guy cheats he's 80% more likely to do it again..but what stats DON'T say is, whether he'll do it again with the same woman, how many times he'll do it again, or if he'll continue to do it in a new relationship. Don't always trust statistics. Besides, what about women? Women aren't perfect they cheat too.
Personally for me, it depends on the maturity of the guy. I've had "boyfriends" that cheated on me before, but then they find that certain someone and suddenly it's like they see clearer. My current boyfriend cheated on his ex to be with me, and we've been together for years now. I cheated on a boyfried once, for no reason other than for the thrill of it, and nearly died of the guilt i felt. To me, cheating hurt worse than being cheated on.
I've always tried to look at it like this: If you feel the urge to cheat, you shouldn't be in that relationship.

it depends on why the person cheated. ive cheated, but only because the guy i was with became really really cold towards me, and i needed something. im with an amazing guy now though, and i would rather die than ever cheat on him

I cheated on my husband and had a very hard time understanding why i did it. I went to a therapist about it and my marriage. She told me I didnt feel guilty about it cuz i was angry at my husband. I think i did it to force something to change... and it did. I finally asked for a separation and then 3 months later a divorce, partly because i knew that my cheating meant i shouldnt be with him. I'm now with someone who i love very much and I know I would never cheat on him or anyone else again. I regret it so much and if i get to the point where i am tempted to cheat, then I know i shouldnt be with the person i am. I dont believe once a cheater.. always a cheater. My male cousin also was in a long term relationship and cheated... he ended up married to her and they now have two children and he is happier than i've ever seen him. I know he feels the same as i do. So if some guy is trusting you enough to tell you he cheated on someone before, take it for what it means... that he trusted you with that. If a guy has cheated on you... well that's different... he will always cheat on you again. I told myself after everytime i cheated that i would never do it again... and I know if i stayed in my marriage it would have continued.

yeah, if he did it once. he's gonna do it again.. stay away from the dude

yeah, if he did it once. he's gonna do it again.. stay away from the dude