Question: I love my boyfriend so much and...

This man doesn't respect you. Your love is too good for him. If you let this go on you are only going to hurt yourself. I have no problem with threesomes but if you aren't comfortable with it then he should have a problem with hurting you that way. I think you need to move on from this one and find a man who isn't interesting in putting you into that kind of position.

To be honest, if it truly makes you that uncomfortable and he still insists on having threesomes and tries to threaten to dump you if you say no, ask him if he would be okay with a threesome with another guy. It might piss him off, but then again, it might make him realize that what he's doing to you is wrong.
Stand your ground, honey. You deserve better, and it sounds like this man only wants sex from you, not a real loving relationship.

thanks all guys for the comments and it enlightened me a lot to find the right and proper wisdom and knowledge I need. I am now out of my relationship and I feel a lot better now that I am not coerced to do things I am not comfortable doing.

my darling, never do anything you dont feel comfortable with. not even if u are in love. very deep inside you knew u didnt want to do it. so do not do it :) One of the girls here said you should say no no no no till he finally understands. That will work.

I think for most men 3somes are fantasy only. once they have done it, they are ok, some dont do it again... I wonder, would he want you to have a 3some? you and 2 guys? hahaha... his answer would be a HELL TO THE NO.

I also read something you said: he wants to have other 2 kids with other women and live in the same place??????????????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That is not love my darling.

I know it is hard to face it but he is not appreciating all you are and all you have done for him. I dont know if he will be able to realize....

Please be strong, never doubt about how important you are and how beautiful you are for others. Smile always, and do not settle for anything less. Never!

much love.

OMG this guy is a loser!! If he loves you he would respect that you're not into it! Isn't sex with the ONE person he loves good enough? UGH men like that just piss me off!

To be fair he shouldnt want to have sex with another woman.
Admitedly sex means more to women than it does men but that is no excuse for him to try and manipulate you in to his way of thinking.
If you have told him multiple times that you are not happy with him having threesomes then I think it is time for you to get out of that relationship. He bviously has no respect for you.
If you are living together and it is your place, when he is out, pack all of his stuff, change the locks and move on with your life.
You may think that you can't live with out him but it seems like you have been doing that for a while, or at least to an extent.
Never give in to him, if you are not happy with any part of the relationship then you have a RIGHT to saysomething about it.
Personally if it was me I'd have left him. It seems like hes taking you for a ride, and you are letting him get away with it.
Get out of that relationship before it destroys you completely.

im assuming he wants a 3some with another woman?
i cant imagine having a 3some with my bf and one of my friends, would be too weird for me
if it was with one of his female friends i wouldnt like it
to be honest, i wouldnt like to have a 3some at all, it would feel like we were cheating right infront of each other, but thats just my point of view

its like every guys fantasy to have a 3some, my bf wanted one when he was single, a sort of one-night-stand 3some, but now he's with me he doesnt want to have sex with anyone else.
i think guys change
but i agree with u anon, guys will shut up after a few times of saying "No".

dont do it. if he loves u then ur enough!

Exactly!! I completely agree with A Nicole - American men, while some are like that, the majority are NOT. And relationships are typically monogamous. He taking advantage of you, and not being faithful to you. If you are uncomfortable, do NOT do it. Just reading what he tells you makes me sick. He's manipulating you, girl, and congratulating himself on it behind your back. Take control of the situation, and let him know what YOU want. If he can't handle it, or doesn't care, then he was never in the relationship to begin with. Take back your confidence.