Question: How do I know if a guy...

I have a lot of experience with online dating, so I can try and help you out with this one.

How does one KNOW if they're NOT interested? This question can VARY based on the person you are communicating with. During the first week of interacting with someone online, you either talk to them, webcam, and possibly if you're comfortable, end up having conversations via the phone, and they'll keep on asking to communicate with you possibly daily (most likely if they're truly interested).

Do NOT say you are "desperate" for finding people online, because honestly, we live in a technology age. It is not unusual anymore, and lots of people can find their potential significant other through the usage of the internet. I also feel one can REALLY get to know a person through this type of communication but of course, once you meet physically, it can be a totally different story. You gotta feel out what is right for you. It is very easy to find so many great people online, problem is, sometimes you meet great people that live far away, and you have to decide whether long distance online, is worth it or if you just decide to keep it local. Once you decide what you are looking for, it is easy to make your decision based on your qualifications.

If a guy ONLINE is generally interested in you, they're going to ask for your email to take communication further, or possibly cell phone number, and you guys can chat, and see if you guys are compatible. I've talked with guys before that I got completely bored with in the initial conversation, and saw there was no potential, but sometimes, you can meet people who have that same attraction for you, as you do them, and it's amazing, because you get to see when someone is interested.

Most likely, they'll correspond with you about everyday to get to know you, then ask for your number, and then find a place to meet, and if the distance is too far, they will still try to talk with you over the internet. I am not sure how much this helps you, but I hope you are able to find what you are looking for, because in all reality, the internet has so many interest groups that you can find people who are interested in the same TV shows, music, food, so much more! It's all about what you are interested in, and if that person has a personality that matches up with yours. I've had the good and bad of the "online" dating scene, so it's easy to not get hooked up on a person that couldn't care less. You'll know when someone wants more than just a friendship, it will be quite evident. :)

Take care and good luck in your situation! :)