Question: I dated this guy for about a...

your bound to miss him its natural but if his cheated is say his not worth times and healer jus try nd keep yourself bussy

omgg dis is the same situation im in only its bout to b a yr dat ive been single me nd my ex were togetha for 1yr nd 6months nd he cheated nd got a new gurl rite away nd now dat its gona b a yr since i was wit him it makes me think bout him even more =/ . but hes in fl now while im in ny & he gota gurl nd i havent spoken 2 him in bout 2-3 months but idkk i get mixed emotions

omgg dis is the same situation im in only its bout to b a yr dat ive been single me nd my ex were togetha for 1yr nd 6months nd he cheated nd got a new gurl rite away nd now dat its gona b a yr since i was wit him it makes me think bout him even more =/ . but hes in fl now while im in ny & he gota gurl nd i havent spoken 2 him in bout 2-3 months but idkk i get mixed emotions

I've been through this myself, though said guy will remain nameless, i can tell you why you feel the way you do, and what's causing it...

You don't nessecarily love the guy you just broke up with, but you miss the simplicity he brought to your life, i guarantee he probably made you feel safe, or loved, or generally just happier.. but your relationship ended because of certain issues either you or he had to work out, but i live by the logic that you cannot change people, regardless of how much you actually want to be able to.

So my advice is to just gear up, and try to find someone else. if your like me you could want them back for entirely sexual reasons, and you might not even want the relationship back at all. My guy made me feel whole, safe, happy. but we were built on lust, and not love, and that NEVER works out. 2 and a half years into it, we stopped having sex thanks to multiple reoccurring issues, that were "he'd cross a limit of mine" and when i'd tell him, he'd pick out personal flaws until i felt so shitty about myself that i'd just hang up and cry.. besides the sex and fighting we never had a relationship, so like i'd be talking to him, and he'd just stare at me, as though he was socially inept or something... He made me feel weird, cause he'd just...stare. :0 that's how i knew he was a tosser, and that i needed someone i could have a relationship with that wasn't just sexual.

i'm in somthing simaliar, theres this boy who i've liked hated for quite awhile and we've been on and off. when we're apart i miss him so much and last time when we were apart i told myself if we got back together i'd never leave him. sometimes if you give eachother enough space you'll end up appreciating how much you really do love them. i know i love him even though hes done things that have made me hate him and i've done things to make hom hate me but we realised when we were apart that that dosent matter cause i love that fact i hate him as much as i hate the fact of love him. i dony know whethere that was helpfull properly dont but bye x

I went through something similar. & just forget him! He's so not for you if it keeps ending like this. You can rise above and be better than him. God has a plan for you and it probably wasn't with him. There are lots of guys out there and God has one picked out for you. Just be patient and he'll come.
Ways to get over him can be finding another guy for now to just talk to and chill with.
Pray to God about it!
Go out on girls nights(:
You'll make it.

I am going throught the same thing right now, the guy i was with cheated on me with my enemy. I am being strong and not letting myself go back to him as i know he will then feel he can get away with anything. BE STRONG AND YOU WILL GET OVER IT! best of luck x

im in the EXACT SAME situation. its been 2 months since i broke up with my bf bc he cheated on me. i love him with all my heart. he was my first love. but i could never happily be back with him. even though he calls me alll the time trying to get me back. as time has passed it hurts less, but i can honestly i still do love him. but he is toxic for me and i know that. if u feel like ur ex is toxic aswell do not go back. dont. cheating is a big no no in my book and is inexcusable.
you deserve better. its tough bc if u take him back he will think he can get away with it again.
be strong girl. demand to be treated like the princess that you are.

you probably just miss having a relationship with someone, but not actually him, seeing as you only think of him negatively. just try to find someone else, because then you'll have the relationship but someone you like aswell.

i cant tell you what to do but i really think you love him but loving someone and being in love are totally different things! i was in a situation similar for 4 years sweetie run....run as far away as you can and just be yourself. yes i know that you are broken i was broken for years after my ex but you have to fix yourself he cant fix your hurt because if you go back you will feel empty!