Question: I’m 19 years old and I met...

u should only sleep with him if ure ready. u kno he cares for u and u care for him he probly wants u just as bad but is afraid of ure reaction just as u are of his. proceed with caution and talk it over before passion overlues u 2.

I’ve got together with my best male friend...We were best friends for about 2 years ,now we have been together for 5 months. And it’s the most beautiful relationship that I can have and we really love each other. So, maybe u should try...

I would say wait. For one, what if you're still on the rebound? I've done that before. I mean, I'm still a virgin, but I've been through a break up and then immediately began liking someone who was very close to me but not exactly my type. Later, once I had gotten over the break up, I realized that I didn't actually want to date him, he was just a very good friend. If this is something that you've been feeling for a long time, then I would say wait just a little bit longer before you do anything that will make a big impact on your relationship. However, following your heart is sometimes one of the smartest things you can do. Be wise, my dear. Know yourself and your friend and all will turn out all right.

I would say wait. For one, what if you're still on the rebound? I've done that before. I mean, I'm still a virgin, but I've been through a break up and then immediately began liking someone who was very close to me but not exactly my type. Later, once I had gotten over the break up, I realized that I didn't actually want to date him, he was just a very good friend. If this is something that you've been feeling for a long time, then I would say wait just a little bit longer before you do anything that will make a big impact on your relationship. However, following your heart is sometimes one of the smartest things you can do. Be wise, my dear. Know yourself and your friend and all will turn out all right.

wait till hes yours, makes it more special. yu will not look like a slut, sluts are people who d it with just about anybdy, you like this dude. so go for it if you want to

Just talk to him. If you two are friends you will most likely work something out. I'm going through the same thing right now and we talk about it, rather than acting on it. It helps a lot when you know you are both on the same page.

What I really wanted to say is that I understand you. I meet my best friend when I was 17. We started as friends, hence I was dating my ex boyfriend ( whom I lasted with for about 3 years ) During those years, him and I ( my best friend ) became really close since he was always there and he always liked me so he did whatever possible to stay at least friend. He always helped out and respected me.

Nevertheless, when things with my boyfriend started to hang loose, I started to have feelings for my best friend as well. So we kissed, and he lost his virginity to me, and well, we talked about it a lot, yet let it all go natural. Ever since I broke up with my ex boyfriend, we were single yet together, and even though we got together physcially nothing ever changed in our frienship.

What are we today you might ask? We are offically since a few moths ago a couple. And things have been going amanzly great. He knows me, I get him, he knows my story and I´ve always been wanting someone like him. And if we dont end up lasting ( which we hope we do hence the have trust and communication ) we know that we can end up being friends. ( which is possible since my ex and I are friends. )

So cheer up girl and go for it if you both want to.. talk about it a bit yet let go because you never know how you feel about him if you dont let him in. I think its possible, hence its my story.

I honestly don't think you should lose yourself to him so easily. Ignore the sexual tension and just have fun. The relationship will last so much longer if you do. Just because you love him, doesn't mean you need to spread your legs.

If he's your best friend I hardly think he'd consider you a slut. You might want to wait until you are both sure you want to be together though. That way if it does not work out, you don't have that awkwardness of having slept together looming over you. There are always cold showers and solo flights lol.

I agree with the 50/50 chance. If you don't take the risk, then you will never know. You don't want to wonder for the rest of your life "what if", you know?