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Question: I found out my fiance was cheating...

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Posted by Anonymous on January 25, 2010 at 3:50 PM

I found out my fiance was cheating on me and called off our engagement in the middle of December. As heartbroken as I was/am I am so incredibly blessed/grateful that I found out now than later. That being said, he has now sent me two emails asking for the ring back. I'm so torn. On one hand, I don't want it at all because it reminds me of him but on the other hand, I've already spent money on planning the wedding and feel that this is kind of a redemption to me. So my question is do I give back the ring or no?

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  • Posted by Winnie on April 8, 2010 at 12:15 PM
It is, but its not really legalized :p
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No way! He called it off... its not his place to get it back. Tell him you pawned it and can't.
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If the ring was in his family (like his grandma's ring or something) you're supposed to give it back to him. But if he bought it especially for you, you have the right to keep it (or sell it on ebay like Lauren said :P)
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Post it on Craigslist/Ebay and send him the link.
Make sure it says "First Come First Serve" and a low price $$ :)

That way he can hold nothing over you, and you can show him, SCREW YOU-- I'M DONE.
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  • Posted by Anonymous on January 29, 2010 at 8:46 PM
Remember that if a man will cheat on a great girl once, he'll do it again. Get out of there.
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  • Posted by Anonymous on January 27, 2010 at 12:06 PM
Actually, who paid for the ring? Sometimes, a ring is bought 50/50 (odd but true). If you've put money into the ring, by way of payments and such, you're entitled to half of it. If it was completely his, then I'd give it back (after making him pay for what part of the wedding you've already invested cause I know how that can be if you've already found a venue) but it's possible that he wants the ring back to give it to someone else.. and probably keep the cycle of lies and deceit going.
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  • Posted by Anonymous on January 27, 2010 at 12:34 AM
Tell him he can give you the money you put into the wedding back, then tell him he can have the ring back. Then tell him you hope the next girl he gives it to will like it.
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agreed
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  • Posted by Anonymous on January 26, 2010 at 5:33 AM
damn girl, how much did u spend on just planning the wedding????
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  • Posted by Anonymous on January 26, 2010 at 5:31 AM
uhhhh if he doesnt have much money to begin with then £500 would b a lot to him
u would spend ur every last penny because u love that person and want to show that
if u were dating a rich guy n he bought u a cheap ring u would b disappointed, but if u were dating a guy who didnt have much money then it would show how much he cares about u.
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