I found out my fiance was cheating on me and called off our engagement in the middle of December. As heartbroken as I was/am I am so incredibly blessed/grateful that I found out now than later. That being said, he has now sent me two emails asking for the ring back. I'm so torn. On one hand, I don't want it at all because it reminds me of him but on the other hand, I've already spent money on planning the wedding and feel that this is kind of a redemption to me. So my question is do I give back the ring or no?