Question: What do I need to to know/do...
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Posted by Anonymous on January 27, 2010 at 8:19 PM
What do I need to to know/do when leaving home before finishing high school? I am still intent on graduating, and later attending college. I'm turning eighteen this May. I'm graduating June 2011 but I'm moving out this August.
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make sure you have some support before you take off though, if it's not your family, than friends........ like, older, established friends who can be a shoulder to lean on, a couch to cry on, a home-cooked meal when your exams are due. that kind of thing. trust me, youl need it.
otherwise, id just say try to orginise things well before you leave, find a job (if you dont have one already) get your apartment sorted, have some savings in the bank, cos, seriously, your gonna need them. with the study, and probably having to work aswell, its gonna be intense, but im sure you'l make it..........
ive just turned 18 an have been out of home for 1 1/2 yrs....... studying for most of that time. ive had a lot of parental support, and ive really needed it at times. it hasnt been easy, but it's the best thing ive ever done........wouldnt ever change it....... or go back.
best of luck honey....... its an exciting (scary) adventure....... hope it all goes well.
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I think 18 years of loving and providing for their kids is enough for some people. If a person is mature and responsible enough to move out and has the money and sources to do so, then I think it's acceptable. I moved out at 18, not out of spite, I'm very close with my parents but I was ready to take care of myself. A parents love won't end when their child moves out. :)
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Once she turns 18, she's free to go.
If you just want your independence, that's fine! Make sure you stay in high school until graduation next year though. I know that's what you're planning to do, but sometimes it's hard to push yourself through it when you're on your own.
It's a learning process, moving out for the first time. At first, you may feel a little lost but if you keep at it, you'll be okay.
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No, it is. Physical abuse isn't a joke y'know.
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Also...go to class. Skipping only leads to more skipping. Enjoy school but finish it and move on in the end with your degree in hand.
Travel, when and where possible. Trust me, that trip to Australia or the Bahamas is worth eating Ramen noodles.
Cooking for yourself (and friends) can be educational and fun. It also doesn't happen to be expensive necessairily. Check out Dave Lieberman and Melissa D'Arabian (spelling?) on Food Network if you don't believe me. You can always have a couple nights a week where you and your friends pool your resources and you cook for them . Companionship, laughter and good food go great together.
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Also...go to class. Skipping only leads to more skipping. Enjoy school but finish it and move on in the end with your degree in hand.
Travel, when and where possible. Trust me, that trip to Australia or the Bahamas is worth eating Ramen noodles.
Cooking for yourself (and friends) can be educational and fun. It also doesn't happen to be expensive necessairily. Check out Dave Lieberman and Melissa D'Arabian (spelling?) on Food Network if you don't believe me. You can always have a couple nights a week where you and your friends pool your resources and you cook for them . Companionship, laughter and good food go great together.
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Start saving now so you have a good amount of savings incase something happens!
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Now I'm assuming the obvious, all your school stuff for college, house items, furniture, and other helpful items that will help you stay organized. But it also never hurt to bring the fun stuff like DVDs, mini fridge [referring to dorms if that's where you're going], a bike , bus and metro passes, etc. Just don't forget to BREATHE. This will be your moment of freedom, and that's what parents are for-- just stay in touch. They'll guide you.