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Question: So before Christmas I had this 'thing'...

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Posted by Anonymous on February 16, 2010 at 1:38 AM

So before Christmas I had this 'thing' with a guy, and then Christmas Eve he told me he really liked me, I knew I really liked him also, but I waited until Boxing Day before I told him, just so I was sure. When I did tell him, he ignored me and I didn't get a reply for two days which is where he told me that he wasn't over his ex and he didn't want to use me, which I completely understood. But then at the New Years Eve party, he brought another girl along and ended up being in a relationship with her on New Years and not long after they broke up. Within the next week or so, he told me he liked me again, I didn't say it back, because of what happened last time, shortly before I was going to tell him he ignored me again, and has this little 'thing' going on with another girl. So it's just like history repeating itself, but I still really like him, even after what he's done. I just don't know what to say to him, so some help would be appreciated?

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user, asshole, and a loser. Ignore him if you can, and honestly, don't listen to anything he says. He's just using you till something better comes along.
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  • Posted by Anonymous on February 16, 2010 at 2:53 PM
Don't tangle your emotions up any further with this guy unless you want them to be seriously hurt. He's a self-centered player and he doesn't care if he hurts you or not. If he cared about you he wouldn't be playing games with your emotions. Stay far away from him for your own emotional health and self worth. You can do much better. Find someone who cares about you and will make the choice to do things and spend time only with and for you. He really is out there. Hold out for what you know is best for you...it's well worth the wait.
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I wouldn't bother with him. If he really likes you he will stop messing about. But I'm sure you can find someone better, and if not then you'll be happier single because you won't have someone messing you about and making you upset, I went through that and I know looking back that I would of been happier if I'd been single and waited to find someone better.
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  • Posted by Lisa Myers on February 16, 2010 at 12:50 PM
He doesnt know what he wants, he likes u when nuthin else is there, tell him to go jump in a lake an find someone better for u, there r good men out there u just gotta be paitent an keep looking, dont jump for the first warm body. I made that mistake 28 yrs ago an now im gettin divorced an startin a new relationship with the guy i shoulda been with all along.
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This guy you are talking about, psychologically he is not ready to for any committed relationship. He just wants to be playing 50/50 game. He might like you and doesn’t want to hot you emotionally since he knows that he was a player. Pls do yourself a favour and look for some1 that has more potentials than he do. Now you can still control the situation. There is only one way you can make your heart to cry i.e. when u had a heart break. Be careful.
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  • Posted by Anonymous on February 16, 2010 at 7:37 AM
He's on a rebound. Be careful!
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  • Posted by Anonymous on February 16, 2010 at 5:00 AM
agreed. i went out with a guy who only dated girls for 2 months and then moved on. All his friends told me to leave it, he just wanted another notch on his bed post. I thought "I can change him". He dumped me EXACTLY 2 months after we got together. The early warning signs could of saved me from wasting 2 months with this idiot.
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omg give up, hes obviously not going to change. stop wasting your time with this LOSER
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  • Posted by Anonymous on February 16, 2010 at 4:02 AM
Stay far, far FARRRR AWAY from this guy.
Even your instinct seems to be telling you he's bad news, and yet you still like him!?!
This actually is pretty similar to what happened to me last year. I was stupid but I've learnt from my mistake - don't do the same thing I did and ignore your gut feeling.
This guy sounds like a total user and loser.
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  • Posted by Anonymous on February 16, 2010 at 2:06 AM
Totally agree with the comment above. This sounds like a really bad sign and in this situation I think you need to really protect yourself and put a stop to this before you really get hurt
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