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Question: So... ever since my freshman year of...
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Posted by Anonymous on April 8, 2010 at 3:16 PM
So... ever since my freshman year of college I've been best friends with this guy, and secretly in love with him. He's been in a long-term relationship until last semester. But then I guess you could say I 'wanted him until he wanted me' then I didn't like him anymore. IDK what I was doing!! I was talking and hooking up with a couple of other guys like pretty much right in front of him and didn't realize how much he actually liked me! Now, he's talking to this other girl and I'm realizing what I'm giving up. I think I want him but literally he's my best friend and I have every single class with him, so I'm not sure I want to actually be with him and cross the friend line and ruin our friendship... I broke his heart last semester and now (I think) he is breaking mine...what gives!?
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We touch and we play...
But deep down we want to be loved irrevocably with such a passion.
So we look and we look...WE HUNT.
Once we find that prey; we pounce HARD. Sometimes we miss and fall flat on our faces...
And sometimes we tackle and gorge.
But...when you think about it...playing the same game gets boring after a while...and they prey begins to be boring to catch.
LET the men hunt you. Take a break and just enjoy the atmosphere...its college, have fun. The right man will find you and before you know it you'll be knocked out off your feet in love...everything will make sense.
Just have fun, and be yourself. Don't get yourself tied up around a man with drama. You don't need that.
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and you seem to have some commitment issues or maybe you just don't want to lose your friendship..
anyways if things do go wrong in your relationship you can work them out..
but do u really want to keep wondering for the rest of your life that how things would have been if u had told him ??
listen as it is you cant just go back to being "just good friends" right so you might just as well talk to him and go for it...
but if you tell him there is a possibility that you could find your Mr right in him
and don't you think the risk is really not that much in front of how wonderful things could be if everything works out fine....
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If you really like him, go for it. But honestly it sounds more like your jealous of his attention.