I don't really know how this works, but I'll give it a whirl. I'm not like every other girl. I'm a Metalhead who likes horror movies, video games and the internet, WAY too much. My only problem is finding someone special. I'm 22, about to graduate college and I've got my goals set in stone. I've met a few guys here or there, but nothing ever really panned out, mostly because I don't like to play the "cat and mouse" game. I'm at a loss of trying to decide is it me or is it them? What's wrong with being a plus-sized girl that's into a loud, abrasive subculture and nerdiness? Part of me wants to blame living in the good ol' state of Texas, the other wants to take out loans and invest in plastic surgery and reinvent myself. Help, please!