Question: Hi girls... I really need your honest...

To me I think you should wait a while but if he still doesnt let up you should leave him and move on because like they said that might just be a way 4 him 2 get u for sex. But hopefully he lets up n you 2 can become a serious relationship

hey girl!
My advice - wait it out and enjoy the ride (pardon the pun) :)
I'm in a similar situation at the moment, i want more but i don't know if he does or not. When we started "seeing" each other (or not, as it were), he said from the get-go that he wasn't in for something serious at the moment because we're both studying and poor etc. But i've chosen to wait it out, which could be anywhere up to a year or more away.
If you think he's a good guy - and lets face it: There aren't very many of them left out there! - and you think it's worth keeping him around, then do it! But keep having a life as well. Kiss other people, sleep with other people (if that's your thing), to try and maybe put a bit of distance in the situation.
That's just my opinion, but i say stick with it if you think he's something special :)

Why do you have to be told your his girlfriend? If you kissing someone else and he's doing the same thing. there is no relationship between you. If he's with you for sex then be prepared your there for sex only. You kinda set yourself up for that kinda of relationship by giving into what you thought it could be. Not for what it really is. A guy will let you know when you are in a relationship. He will introduce you as his old lady, the ball and chain, my woman, ma girl. Lol. Any one of these is a very good indicator. Anything else your kidding yourself! a man has the right to choose when he is in a relationship with you. DON"T FORCE THE SITUATION!

Wait it out. I was in the same situation as you and i waited it out. My guy and I are official now and it's been almost a year since we started the hanging out/calling. It's worth the wait cause he just might not be in the place in his life.

Wow yeah I am facing that exact same problem right now. This guy and I have been talking for a while and I want to be with him and I think he wants to be with me but nothing is happening. I want him to make the first move and ask me to be his girlfriend but I am so tired of waiting that I am tempted to just say something to him about it myself but I don't wanna scare him off.

you should move on. i m sorry to say, guys can pretend to be nice guys, put up with things they dont actually like to exchange for sex and fun with girls. once they sense things getting serious at the girls side, they would stop. because what they are looking for is only casual and easy fun. that also explain why they are seeing other girls at the same time, because they want more, they are hunting for more and more. they dont need a girlfriend at all. if you are careful enough then you will see they wont promise girls anything. coz girls are just girls, for them, girls come and girls go. no big deal. unless its a special girl for them, and by then the girl would know if she is special or just another casual one for them.

Guys regularly will use that excuse just to get laid without commitment. I say, put your foot down. You are not just a piece of meat and he needs to know that. If he doesn't cooperate, he obviously doesn't want to be with you for more than just sex. You want more, and at that point, you need to move on.

la verdad amiga que estas en un problema no tener claro si es tu hombre si esta bien, si lo que pasa ,es correcto si lo dejas ir, muchas dudas si experimentas esta sensaciones es que es amor y no mas que decir Existe, en verdad, un magnetismo, o más bien una electricidad del amor, que se comunica por el solo contacto de las yemas de los dedos.. berny

In my HONEST opinion...I have seen my best friend fall into this trap over and over again. So far, it has never worked out for her. I keep telling her not to give it up until she is exclusive but she never listens to me, which is probably why she is still single and still just a piece of meat to guys.

Put your foot down. If he doesn't give in, then move to the next guy and don't make the same mistake. Once you give it up that quickly, what does a guy want a relationship for?

I have made that mistake too in the past, I put my foot down, lost the guy, but he ended up coming back a couple of months later saying he made a big mistake. He is now my husband! If you keep giving in, you are just wasting your time.

Good luck!