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Posted by Anonymous on April 4, 2010 at 10:23 PM

I was with a guy for over ten years. I thought we were going to get married. Then when I got pregnant he started cheating on me and hasn't stopped since. He tells me all the time that he is trying to make things work with me but he says I'm a bitch because I get pissed and fight with him when I find out about ANOTHER girl. He has tons of girlfriends. It's even to the point where I have found him in bed with them twice when I came to drop our kid off, plus he pocketdials me when he's with them. I just don't understand why he keeps lying to me. He should just be honest because he's made it very clear that he's moved on. Actions speak louder than words. I just don't know what to do because I have to see him because of our daughter, and it's like no matter how much I try to stay away from him the crap with his girlfriends still comes right up in my face! What to do??

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If he's being like that and in bed with another woman when he knows your bringing his daughter around then clearly that's not a situation for a child to see/to be brought up in and he shouldn't be allowed to see her. This should do one of two things, make him sort his S&$% out and be a proper dad or he won't care and this gives you the best chance to get the hell away from him, change your number and live a happy life with your child. Even find someone who won't be such a disgusting jerk!
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Just leave, if you want to take care of your daughter thats the best thing, just in case anything strange would start happening, plus you dont want her to grow up and think that its ok for men to do that type of thing to any women! There are plenty of good guys out there and he definitly isn't one of them!
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LEAVE!! RUN AWAY FAST. This guy is a fucking weirdo, dont put up with this. There is a man out there whos going to love you no matter what and treat yiou like gold this isnt him!!
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If he knows you are bringing your child over, why is he in bed with another woman?! Ugh! That is disgusting. I know that is not the main point of this, but things like that stand out to me. If you know your child is going to be at your home soon, you shouldn't be doing the nasty with a girl. He doesn't seem to be committed to anyone; You, your child, or any of the women he is or has been with.
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two words: leave him!!!

it is obvious he does not care about you so why put yourself through the hurt and anguish??? you need to take care of yourself and your child. they are your top prioroities not some low life scum bag who can't keep his penis inside his STD filled jock strap. the sooner you move on with your life the better you will feel. trust me! been there, done that. i know it's hard because you were with him for so long, but you need to cut the losses and get on with living.

if you want to be really mean, keep the daughter away from him until he gets his shit together.

hope you sort it out soon. not only for your sake, but your beautiful little girl too.
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  • Posted by Anonymous on April 5, 2010 at 12:57 AM
he is not worthy for you to suffer with him, leave him and just focus to your child she need you most. it is very clear that he doesnt care and he doesnt love you.
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  • Posted by Anonymous on April 4, 2010 at 11:53 PM
Okay...this is where you put your foot down and ditch the asshole!
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  • Posted by Anonymous on April 4, 2010 at 11:31 PM
what? are you with him? sleeping with him? leave him, move on, get yourself a better boyfriend to help take your mind and effort off of this douche. you live separately at least, that makes it easier. why are you bothering with him at all babe? because you have a child together? staying together for the kids is hardly ever a good choice. they dont want to see parents together who cant get along and to show them a bad example of what love should look like. please dont give him anymore of your time. the only thing you should be trying to figure out is child support and visitation.
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Honey, It isn't worth it. Leave him.
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  • Posted by Anonymous on April 4, 2010 at 11:23 PM
I'm so sorry that you're in this situation but you have a beautiful precious child and that should be your priority. He sounds like a total jerk and you deserve better than him for both you and your child!
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