My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 1/2 years now. When we first started dating everything was great, we cuddled the sex was amazing, all the good stuff. But now that we're way past the honeymoon period, I can't even get him to look at me? I have a very big sexual appetite, I could do it 2-3 times a week but he only wants to do it once every 2 weeks, and when I try to get things going he will push my hand away for make some rude joke of, oh you’re just a sex fiend and it’s starting to hurt my feelings. I can understand if you're tired or whatever, but I put up with everything he wants to do or not do and even when I don’t want to, am I just being too sensitive about it and let it go or ? I just don’t know what to do and I’m sick of begging... any ideas?
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2-3times a week,isnt that much lol
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Sex dice are a great way to get some excitement back, as well as foreplay and you get a good laugh. New lingerie could also help (or, you could introduce role play). Then there's toys, handcuffs or a blindfold. And there's always introducing new positions or techniques to foreplay.
Be sure to talk with him if nothing works, communication is key.
Good luck!
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P.S.-2-3 times a week isn't so much! i'm used to having sex all days a week if not at least 5 times!
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He also might want you to stop asking for it so much, guys like to think they are masculine enough to take charge sexually at times.
You gotta revive the passion somehow, so if I were you I'd go buy some lingerie and walk around like "whatever" turning on porn or something, let him know you'll take care of yourself if he doesn't want to play ;) (that'll make him excited)
Also, always make sure that you look like you are taking complete care of yourself, may sound shallow, but by keeping your fingers/toes painted, eyelashes curled-- he will know that if you're not getting dressed up for him, it's for someone else (that'll get his attention)!