Question: Has anyone every gotten back with an...

Aw, congratulations. I honestly feel like I have to give him time and space to realize this on his own. It'll be hard, but has to be done!

The funny thing is I have been wanting to post this same article;

My boyfriend and I started dating his senior year which would be about 3 years ago. Our relationship was all hogwash...he never called...and we barely even got to see eachother. He broke up with me randomly over the phone...I was extremely hurt. I hated him hardcore for three straight years and continued dating with such a fear of rejection or if I was being too clingy.

3 months ago he shows up at my door out of no where...and I let him in...He told me his story of what had happend over the last three years. He didn't date one girl after he broke up with me. He told me he couldn't find a better girl than myself.

Sounded cheesy at first...but he was telling the truth. He told me he never stopped loving me...and that he was deeply sorry...I took him back...

And he really has changed. He calls me a lot, and He has been there for me through this hectic life...I've been through a lot lately, and he was there at the funeral, and at all costs holding my hand and calming me down.

I think it takes distance and time for someone to realize what they lost...and what they want back. I love him so much...and I'm more than happy to be with him. Today is our 3 month anniversary, and i hope there are more to come.

Good luck, and just be very open to him...keep your eyes open and watch him...for old habits. Men don't change unless they are truly inspired...Be careful and guard your heart.

my boyfriend and i broke up in jan '10 after 2years together because of ALOT of arguing, we split for about 3months and in this time i dated someone else for about a week (on the rebound) but i realized i still loved my ex and i told him that today and were together again! i love him with all my heart but dont regret breaking up with him 3months ago because we needed that time to grow as people and now we dont argue or anything, so if its right take a chance you never know what might happen! :) hope it helps x

Haha. Thanks for the advice so far everyone... It seems they all have the word "jerk" in common... Hum... Definitely something I'll consider!

I don't need him to change though... And ha, I've had about every guy I've ever liked want me a year later. It's such a pain in the butt. This guy is a pain... But I want him the way he is.

well i had been with my ex for 3 years, he was my first love we had AMAZING chemistry and i was absolutely smitten! but he was kinda a jerk since he cheated on me 5 times. its been about a year since we broke up and for this whole year he has never stopped tellin me he wants me back. i wont deny the chemistry is still there but my feelings for him have completly gone plus theres no point in going through all that hurt again. Plus i found someone else who is totally the opposite to my ex which is great. i would never have my ex back even if i were single cos there are just somethings you just cant forgive. Maybe in your case its different i mean if you two split because you argued and there was no cheating or anything else involved then i see no reason why you shouldnt give it a go. Life is for living and if you feel so strongly about him it seems a shame not to try again. Not all guys are the same whatever some women say. I mean this breakup could have been just what you two needed to get back on track and be better then ever. Ive seen it happen so i know its possible =)

I dated this guy for almost my entire high school years and I knew I was in love with him, he was my high school sweetheart. During the summer while I was in a college program he went to a party and cheated on me. When he called me and told me the news, I thought my world had fallen on top of me. That was June 27 and we stopped talking to each other. I dated and realized I was still in love with him and than a week after I realized that, he contacted me. We haven't talked for almost 9 months and when we did we both realized that the chemistry was still there. We got back together and were still in love and he asked me to marry him. I guess it's different for alot of girls depending on their situation but all I can say is follow what your heart tells you! :)

I broke up with someone who was single at the time and I was in a relationship but I spent 15 years thinking about him every day, wanting him in my life and wishing I had never given him up, all this was happening whilst I was married. I then separated from my husband and found him again.....but he was now married with a step daughter and a son and we met up initially but I felt on the rebound so I had a gap for a year and then met up with him again - we spent time together which was lovely........but sadly, he was not the person that I first fell in love with, he was weaker, more downtrodden and no longer had the energy, drive or fun that he had. I walked away from him in Dec 08 and can't say that I don't wonder what he's up to now .....but much more in a friend way that a lover way now.

Me and my first BF of three years (live in) broke up, and then got back together after 8 months. He had said he had changed, but he didn't. He was still a jerk. after living with the guy from H-e double hockeysticks for 6 months, I knew for sure it was over. we both spent the night in jail, and it was OVER. When I married my current husband 8 years ago, we had a rough patch our 5th year, and we separated. however, a year later we were back together, went through a couple of disasterous years financially, but are getting back on track now, and couldn't love each other more! however it has definately been a rollercoaster ride. Now I don't know how I'd ever live without him, but when we were separated, I could have spit nails at him, and his family!

After my ex bf and I had been broken up for months and no contact for about a year or so he called and wanted me back and even though he said he had changed i knew he hadn't changed enough for it to work but we got back together only for me to break it off 2 more times so be careful when getting back with an ex because the same issues could come up again but quicker