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Posted by Anonymous on May 25, 2010 at 2:43 PM

My boyfriend and I have been dating for thirteen months and have had sex for the past two. I'm late for my period and may be pregnant because we didn't use protection. (I know that was stupid.) I don't know what to do if I am, he's fourteen and I'm fifteen. Neither of us are ready for a baby but I don't want to abort or go through the nine months of pregnancy. Is there any advice you can give?

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  • Posted by Anonymous on August 18, 2011 at 5:56 PM
You're 15 !!!!!!!!!!!
I am almost 20 years old and have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years.
We never had sex, though we talked about it.
You're 15! You're supposed to get through high school and not having sex with ur ''bf''!
you dont even know what love is!!
you silly girl, you dont even have a developed body yet and it feels like ur ruining it. my friends got preg from the ages 16-19. i went through it with them, every step of the way.
YOU'RE GONNA REGRET IT, KID.
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  • Posted by Anonymous on December 18, 2010 at 8:02 PM
She wasn't being rude she was being blunt and its true. You aren't old enough to have made such a life changing decisions. If you want to have sex like an adult you need to suck it up and face the consequences like an adult.
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I have been there and done that! I was 15 when I got prego. with my first. I am now 21 y.o. and have 4 kids of my own. I will tell you that there is more then 1 option. Have you thought about adoption? I know that it is a hard chose to make. I did it. There is so much that you can give to that child if you do that. My advice is, explore all of your options. There are several, including several adoption options. Look into everything before you make ANY decisions.
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  • Posted by Anonymous on August 9, 2010 at 11:13 PM
Please don't respond to this anymore.
And I am religious enough for myself though it doesn't concern you.
And I wasn't pregnant in the first place, so my praying killed the baby.

~Poster
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  • Posted by Anonymous on August 5, 2010 at 3:07 AM
Cause praying killed the baby!!! and since you're having sex before marriage i bet you're oh so religious.
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  • Posted by Anonymous on July 30, 2010 at 12:30 AM
i agree completely i'm 14 my mom just started letting me date this year i'm a freshmen i have seen way too many girls have to drop out of school becuase of teen pregnacies.you should go to the health department and get pregnicey test but you are way to young to be having sex.. i'm sorry if you think i'm being mean or rude but its the truth you need to talk to your parents about this they might be pissed or disappionted but they would probley want to hear it from you first you should be able to talk to your family about anything
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  • Posted by Anonymous on June 24, 2010 at 12:00 AM
Dear Repliers to the question,

I mean absolutely no offense by this, but anyone who commented after the comment, 'Thank you so much. That's exactly what I did and guess what? It worked!!!! My period started, two weeks late, but it finally started! Thanks everyone for your help.' about how I should do this or that if I am pregnant is an idiot conisdering they were unable to read the comment and process the information that would make the lightbulb above their heads brighten with the idea of, 'Oh, she's not pregnant, I don't have to give any advice.' You're idiots.

To the ones who gave me advice respectfully, I thank you. I especially thank the anonymous replier who told me to pray and relieve myself of stress, that was the best advice and help me immensely.

Finally, I AM NOT PREGNANT. Please get that through your heads and stop replying to this question.

Thank you,

Poster
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  • Posted by Anonymous on June 22, 2010 at 1:49 AM
OK I'm gonna say just one thing..... FAIL
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  • Posted by Anonymous on June 18, 2010 at 12:38 PM
Look, I'm going to be rude, but it's for your best interest. STOP HAVING SEX. Sex that young isn't worth it, trust me. And also, thirteen months isn't all that long. Maybe if you were 30, that'd be okay, but you're 15. Give it like another two years at least. Children are expensive, as are the check ups, vitamins, etc. You were stupid to have unprotected sex. Own up to your actions. Tell your parents and you might want to go to Planned Parenthood as well. They'll help you whether you decide to abort it or keep it. You need to make a decision. You were stupid, now you have to learn to be mature. Grow up please and don't make any more stupid decisions. Thanks. (:
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  • Posted by Anonymous on June 15, 2010 at 9:50 PM
its your choice to wait for what ever reason religious or otherwise, so don't act all self righteous cause she decided she didn't want to wait for a ring to be on her finger. yes she was stupid not to use contraception and should have to deal with the consequences what ever she decided...even abortion. but don't stupid and assume everyone's going to wait until they're married before having sex, just cause you made the choice to wait.
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