Hey ladies, I've been in some of the worst relationships known to ladies e.g dated cheaters, money suckers and one who took my virginity and never called after that. So naturally I am now wary of men and though I feel lonely I think being single is better so I don't get hurt again. Anyway recently I met one of those guys you can only dream about, who calls when he says he will and who is just shy of perfect, but then my insecurities are now popping out again... He has a son with an old girlfriend and I'm really afraid of dating him cause of that and I ask what if he ever decides to get back with her or what if his son doesn't like me bla bla. How do I get over this insecure feeling so I can maybe hang on to a good man and find real love for once??