I am 32, single for about 3 years and am completely paralyzed when it comes to taking the initative when asking a guy out. I am more positive everyday that I have an unapproachable vibe about me and know that I have got to start doing the asking or I am gonna wait forever! I am really interested in one guy in particular and would really like to ask him out but am so scared. We have chatted here and there but it would pretty much be a blind date situation. Any advice on how to get over my fear and just do it??