To date or not to date? My friend has mentioned to me that her brother is interested in dating me. Which, normally I'd think that was cool, maybe give the guy a date and if it didn't work out no hard feelings. But the problem is, her brother is 8 years older than me, got divorced a few months ago, and has a child. I'm not even old enough to drink. Having grown up with a brother who is nearly a decade my senior, I understand the difference those years can make in life, so I'm really unsure about giving him a date. I mean, he's clearly at a VERY different point in his life than I am. It really separates us on a lot of levels. Not to mention that the idea of dating someone who is about as old as my brother really freaks me out (and mildly disgusts me). So I'd really just appreciate feedback.