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Question: There is this guy I work with...

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Posted by Anonymous on September 24, 2009 at 1:43 PM

There is this guy I work with that I really like. He's gorgeous, funny, and has similar interests to mine. The only problem is my ridiculous shyness. I see him a lot less now because I changed shifts, so it seems like the best thing to do is just let it go, but I can't... Every time I see him I feel some strange magnetic attraction that I can't ignore. The thought of me walking up to him though scares me witless, in fact sometimes I can only respond to him with one word answers because I'm so shy. Its like I'm scared of him, but its not like that... Oh I don't know what to do... Any advice is much appreciated.

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I'm on the same boat as you! I met this guy at work (it's a seasonal job, but nevertheless...), and we don't talk much (and don't get to see each other a lot since we're in separate areas at work..but he does come around my area to ask for the time. Lol.), but I feel some kind of attraction towards him. And I'm really shy too,so I know how you feel. But like everybody else has been saying, give him some hints. I'm still trying to work on myself in that area....

Anyways, try to leave him some kind of message asking him if he'd be interested in hang out sometime or going out for lunch. I hope everything goes well for you! :]
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MAKE SURE THAT HE IS NOT TAKEN !, IF NOT , THEN GIVE HIM A HINT , TELL HIM IN INDIRECT WAY THAT YOU ARE INTRESTED , BUT DON'T WAIT UNTIL HE GO AWAY , YOU HAVE GOOD CHANCE SINCE YOU HAVE THE SAME INTRESTS ..
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  • Posted by Arla White on September 26, 2009 at 4:47 AM
I agree. Take a chance and mentally talk yourself into talking to him; you have common interests so start there. you'll never know if you don't try and I agree with everyone else here, he's probably into you so it would be worth it! Good Luck!!
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Lucky for you, a lot of guys think shy-ness is cute. If you really think it could work with this guy, casually let him know in a subtle way your interested in him.. most of all, be yourself, and don't be scared that he isn't gonna like you, cause chances are, mr.coworker has a thing for you..
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  • Posted by Anonymous on September 24, 2009 at 3:42 PM
if u break up ur screwed
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  • Posted by Anonymous on September 24, 2009 at 3:07 PM
i went through the exact same thing i was scared but i told him how i felt n was happy to no he felt the same way n now we been together for 2yrs n a half

GO FOR IT!!! make ur feelings known to him......u have nothing to lose
just be confident....GD luck
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My baby Daddy who I am pregnant for at this point in time is my co- Worker. We have been seeing each other Just over a Year now, and we have a great relationship, after all we are sharing a life together. So I suppport you all the way. Keep your head up!!!
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I SAY GO FOR IT...CUZ IF U DONT U NEVER KNOW WAT U MIGHT B MISSING OUT ON...IF U DONT U WILL ALWAYS WONDER IF....
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I also met my boyfriend at work over 1 year ago...and we're planning marriage as well :)
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I think that you should still try to date him. The only problem would be if he would be married to someone else and you just made yourself vulnerable to him and look like an idiot. Just try talking to him about your feelings and see where that goes. Or, if he is higher up than you in your job, then don't do it because that could cause heartbreak if that were to end badly. You could lose your job and your co-workers' respect. Ask him in private and see where that goes.
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