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Posted by Anonymous on August 31, 2010 at 6:17 PM

I have been thinking to myself the torture us women put ourselves through just to be accepted in society. From a ten year old girl's point of view observing commercials of half naked super skinny women they are seeing what they need to look like to be "beautiful"

Expensive Fashion brands, make up, diets, heat style devices, acne solutions, HEELS, pantyhose, and endless purses clutter the mind of teenagers because that's what fame advertised to assure them what beauty NEEDS to look like.

I've had girls come to me so confused on who they should be...Their entire style is faux and copied off another just to fit in! I had struggles fitting in- I had to straighten my hair every day and fight humidity...looking like I just popped out of a 70's music video with a huge afro by the end of gym class. My face had to be clear and flawless but acne swore itself to be an alliance on my chin...and fashion just seemed to be whatever was on clearance at Walmart due to the lack of money...

Has any other girl felt like they weren't beautiful just because you didn't "fit in"? I'm out of highschool now...and still today to be truly beautiful or "hott" you are told me to a size 2 with flawless skin, and with beautiful shiny hair...

I myself am shaped like a pear literally, my hair doesn't stay straight after straightening it, and I have horrible acne, BUT... I AM ME! and not them. Which means i'm unique...I can strut like I mean it and shouldn't care what people think about me. And you should too. So stop stressing about that big nose, or those crooked teeth...and love the skin you are in.

Can anyone tell me a brief story about how they discovered their true beauty and learned to deal with their flaws?

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  • Posted by Leashie V on October 16, 2010 at 4:45 AM
thank you for that inspiration
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  • Posted by Anonymous on August 31, 2010 at 10:03 PM
Six months ago, right before my grandfather passed he wrote me a card that said: Life isn't always going to be easy but you must never forget who you are, where you came from, and how much you are loved. There are going to be days that you feel bad, sad, or mad but those are your ugly days. You're only allowed 3 of them a year. The other 362 days of the year are to spent having pretty days because everything has beauty in it." It left an incredible footprint on my heart and has helped me to learn to love and accept as I am.
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  • Posted by Anonymous on August 31, 2010 at 9:43 PM
I was dealing with depression and had gained a lot of weight. It may sound funny but I had just joined a gym and was starting to feel better or taking the first step to feeling better. One night when I was finishing up my workout a guy came up to me and said "you look like you're killing yourself with your workouts." I said, "well I have to workout really hard to get the results I want." He said, "No you don't. Not like you did tonight. You need to smile because your smile is contagious." At first I thought he was creepy and then his girlfriend came up and said, "It's true. We've said that since the first day we saw you in here." I left feeling a little better but it was that night when I got home what they said really hit me. It didn't matter if I lost the weight or when I lost the weight. Nothing is worth killing yourself over because if you do you won't get to enjoy what you worked so hard for. It's 3 years later I've lost the weight and they introduced me to my fiance. :)
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