Question: My boyfriend and I rarely have sex....

I always say get rid of things that make you unhappy. Relationships are a two way street. If sex is important to you and he's not wanting to have sex. Theres a problem. My advice dump him you deserve to be happy

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I'm sorry. I can't stand girls that say sex doesn't matter in a relationship. It IS important. You might as well just be friends or as you said roommates, if you have NO sexual connection. I am NOT saying love isn't important. Of course it matters A LOT. Love is so important too, but physical attraction matters too.

I suggest you talk to him about it more. I would guess there is more problems with him than just not wanting to have sex. Or maybe just reinvent the way you have sex. Try new things, wear lingerie. Either way good luck!

I'm sorry. I can't stand girls that say sex doesn't matter in a relationship. It IS important. You might as well just be friends or as you said roommates, if you have NO sexual connection. I am NOT saying love isn't important. Of course it matters A LOT. Love is so important too, but physical attraction matters too.

I suggest you talk to him about it more. I would guess there is more problems with him than just not wanting to have sex. Or maybe just reinvent the way you have sex. Try new things, wear lingerie. Either way good luck!

Sounds to me either he's shy and can't get it up, or he's not interested in sex with you anymore. Not really sure, and i'm no sexpert by any means... But lemme tell yah, if he's unnattracted to you if you pay attention to his body language you'll be able to tell.

Try something new, it could just be he's bored. if you don't go down, or do it from behind, try introducing some toys. ;D Hahaha, blindfold and feather duster, or a naughty uniform is bound to get his mind going. If he's into kinkier stuff, try rope, and light to heavy bondage, or a bit of femdom. take charge. some guys need a bit of that from time to time. ;P

If he's only wanting to have sex when he's drunk, it could easily be an issue of his inhibitions getting in the way. I know that, sometimes when I'm feeling a little stressed or gross or something, it takes a drink or two to get me in the mood. If that's the issue, you just need to make him feel comfortable and not put too much pressure on him to have sex, because that'll make him nervous and freeze up.

Do something sexy with him, that would lead up to sex, and see where that gets you.

You said he's not feeling good about himself - talk about why that is. Maybe you should spend a night loving on him, making him feel wanted - not necessarily having sex - but like back massage, bubble bath, rubbing his face and telling him all the things you love about him, then cuddle up close and fall asleep whispering to each other.

Message me if you want to talk about it more! =)

The importance of sex in a relationship depends upon who you are. I would have difficulty maintaining an intimate relationship with somebody if we didn't have sex regularly. It's just the kind of person I am. This has happened to me before and it ended up with my ex-boyfriend and I drifting apart.

It could be the fact he's stressed about something or he's just feeling low. There could be a reason or there might not be. Whatever it is, it's your job as his lover and long-time girlfriend to see how you can help him. Make him feel good about himself however you can.

He could just be stressed or something. There could be something in his life right now that's causing his libido to be lower than usual. It shouldn't be something that you take too personally. Sometimes it just happens. It's happened with myboyfriend and I. You said that he sais he's not feeling good about himself. That's a good enough reason for his libido to be down. You just have to be patient and be there for him. I don't think this is something to break up over unless you want the sex from him more than actually wanting to be in a relationship with him. You say you love him, so if you really do I think you should man-up and stop being the victim. He said he doesn't feel good about himself, so start making him feel good about himself. Help him out. He's your partner, so it's porbably what you should do. It's all up to you really. Either be a good girlfriend and be there for him and be patient with him, or be selfish and break up with him.

I don't know... a relationship doesn't have to be about sex. If you were... many times a week before the last two months, that's definitely something to consider though. I know someone who this sorta thing happened to... she had a friend start talking to him and she found out he said he was single, and he started flirting with her and wanting to get together, so maybe you need to get some spies... who knows, but you definitely need to figure out something becuz he is probably stringing you along in some way.