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Posted by Anonymous on October 15, 2010 at 10:48 PM

Girls what can I do if my self esteem has been on the ground this last days? I hate feeling like this and it's not like I want to but it is just that every time I look in the mirror I see something wrong and almost all of my friends have boyfriends and I'm beginning to ask myself like why don't I have one? Is there something wrong with me? What can I do to have better self esteem?

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  • Posted by Anonymous on April 19, 2012 at 2:30 PM
This is wonderful advice to anyone. :)

Also, back to the poster, don't worry about the boyfriend thing. It might sound clieche, but you really have to be rather content with yourself before you can be happy with someone else. Otherwise, you'll just worry all the time about not being good enough, which is just going to get in the way.
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  • Posted by Anonymous on November 6, 2010 at 11:27 PM
make a list of positive things about yourself!
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  • Posted by Anonymous on November 6, 2010 at 11:26 PM
Be yourself!!!
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  • Posted by Anonymous on November 6, 2010 at 11:24 PM
I am pretty sure all girls go through this in their lives.
www.operationbeautiful.com
That website changed my thinking completely!
Really, you just need to stop comparing yourself to others. You are beautiful for you. Be yourself, have fun, and smile. When you're smilin, the whole world smiles with you. When you are having a great day, everything will just seem.. well, great!
We all have flaws, and there is nothing we can do about them. So why beat yourself up about them??
You'll be fine (: Get comfy with yourself and accept who you are. Love you for you!
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  • Posted by Anonymous on October 19, 2010 at 8:55 PM
I've gone through the same thing before and what I guess helped me most was learning to look at the positives in my life as cliche as that sounds.... once I started to look at things from a more positive place and saw that life could be so much worse my whole attitude about myself started to change. There's absolutely nothing wrong with you -- no one is perfect! You have to learn to accept yourself for all the amazing things that you are and stop picking yourself apart. When that little voice in your head starts going to a negative place -- tell yourself to stop listening. Put on a good song, go do jumping jacks, read a book, do something that takes your mind off the negative because it's really not true! We all suffer bad days but what I've learned is that it's the people who can turn a negative into a positive that weather the storm... And the first step towards making things better in your life is doing what you did by asking for help. We've all been there and it gets so much better so hang in there.

Also a quote I always tell myself when I'm feeling low about myself is that you are only as beautiful or ugly as you believe. If you feel good you'll attract positive things in your life!!! xo
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