I've been with my fiance/boyfriend for almost 4 years now. We've been through a lot of obstacles with him being in the military. Before he left there was a girl who informed me he was on a dating website and was talking to her trying to hang out with her, when confronting him he said it was probably someone messing with him...which I believed because then I started getting old women messaging me and the dating account was closed a day that we were together the whole time. After that he went to Iraq and he got depressed and it was hard to get him to communicate with me...he came home we got a house (which he makes me help pay for but refuses to put my name on anything) and he started going out and partying with his friends which was fine until he started refusing to tell me where he was going, not coming home, turning his phone off, driving home drunk at 5am, and losing money. One day I told him I was going out with my friend (which I hadn't done since he returned because he was the only one "allowed" out anywhere) he didn't like that too much so he decided to kick me out through a text message while I was driving on the NJ turnpike. So my parents rushed to help me move and that night he asked a girl for drinks...then a week went by and he was crying and begging me back so I moved back a few weeks after because I love him. 2 months later I see he was texting another girl about wanting to meet her and wanting to be more then friends and that he was on plentyoffish.com. I open his laptop and there's at least 20 girl's profile that he had looked at. He wasn't signed in so I don't know for sure who he talked to but he admitted to making it before he kicked me out and that he never met up with them. I didn't know whether to believe him or not but I promised to give him one last chance. He does not sleep with me because I'm not ready for that yet and every time I ask him to stop yelling at me he blames everything on me like I'm the one who did all this to him. He promised to try his hardest to make me feel loved and all he's done was take me to get my nails done...that has nothing to do with love...I just don't know what to do in this situation....Help!