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Posted by Anonymous on February 28, 2011 at 1:37 PM

I ended up going home with one of my guys friends the other night and ended up hooking up with him. Me and him have talked about how we are just really good friends and we would never get to that point but we did. I know when i first met him he had feelings for me and I didn't feel the same. But now that I have hooked up with him I feel like I do have those feelings, and I am not sure if those feelings are real or its just because I want a relationship. I thought things would change with me and him but he is still acting like we are friends so I am not sure if he is just putting his guard up to hide his feelings. Pretty much I need advice on what to do because I don't want to say anything to him but at the same time i don't want to think back on a couple years and wonder what if.

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  • Posted by Leashie V on March 1, 2011 at 12:50 AM
Men are straight out when it comes to dating. If they like you- they will do anything in their power to make it happen...But if they aren't interested they will just move on...Men, they like to be cuddled, and of course they love sex...You got to look at it both sides...You guys hooked up...Was it the heat of the moment, and now you are wanting it to be more cuz it felt good to be noticed...or was it really a spark?

Talk to him about it.
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  • Posted by Anonymous on February 28, 2011 at 7:46 PM
I know how you feel, its very confusing. I hooked up with my best guy friend when we were both drunk one night, it made things weird for a while but then they settled down again. Then about 6 months later we hooked up again and he told me that he wanted things to go further. Well over 4 years later we are still dating and I couldnt imagine my life without him! I think that there is room for friends to date, but at the same time, dont rush it. If you stay friends and he really does want a relationship, I think that things will have a way of happening. At least thats my experience. I hope you manage to sort things out!
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