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Question: I'm a freshman in college and I...

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Posted by Anonymous on April 4, 2011 at 11:14 AM

I'm a freshman in college and I got really close to 3 girls during this last semester. Two of them are roommates and the other is a sophomore who I met first. The sophomore (let's call her A) and I are very close and I consider her to be my best friend. The roommates (let's call them B and C) are freshman who I met later on in the first semester and we bonded quickly due to their energy and love for partying. I've always been closer with B because she is so similar to me but she's inseparable from C. C can be cranky, unpredictable and selfish yet can be nice another minute. When I first met her I knew she would be "bipolar" like this and I kinda kept my distance. Recently, C has become annoyed with me because I guess I'm being too clingy and she likes her space. The only reason I see her is because I'm with B so much because we go to the gym together and get meals and C comes too. She's looking at it that I'm the one tagging along and sometimes I am the one added onto their plans. But she can't ignore me and be rude the way she has. What should I do? I always get in this problem where the girls I focus my time and efforts on seem to get annoyed with me being around and I try really hard not to come on too strong or be clingy! I'm very social, I have a lot of friends but I like to spend time with those that I get along with the best and then they end up turning on me or just getting cranky and I don't know what to do! Now I'm left alone in my single scrambling for what to do next. HELP!

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