Question: Hi ladies. So, I have a crush...

I had this problem to and I told him and I was as scared as ever before and it all worked out and he likes me back...and guys are stupid we may give hint that we like them and well they like never get them.

I know how you feel. I was in the same situation, I asked him after my family, our friends, people who didn't know us said he liked me! So I finally got up the nerve to ask. Turned out he didn't feel that way. We are still best friends over a year later. Knowing what I know now, I still say go for it! Because it shouldn't matter enough to ruin a friendship. If you are that close, he probably already knows it is coming! So just go for it, the worst that could happen is him say no and you will be free to move on. (:

Hi.

A few years ago, i ha a friend like that, we were best friends and did almost everything together, and i was afraid that i was falling in love with him. At one point, he made a move, and we started having a relaitonship, it was great and everything was perfect. after a few months he moved out of the country to study, and we decided to end it.

while he was at the school he met a girl, and they were together, we had contact the whole time while he was gone, and i was the frist one, that he told about his new girlfriend, i was a bit sad, but happy for him. while he was gone, i got a new boyfriend, and when my ex mved back home, he had his girlfriend with him, this did it pretty difficult for us to be friends and see each other, because his girlfriend was pretty jealous, but after a year his girlfriend moved away again, and they split up. after that we became real friends again, and now everything is bak as it was before our relationship, and i am so happy about this.

well, my point is, that i would do it if i were you :)

From a very recent experience, i can tell you that you shouldn't listen to what anybody tells you about this, you know what you want to do, you've known all along, you're just too scared to take that first step..
Whatever you choose to do, let it be what you're used to doing with him, if you're used to being totally honest and straight forward, then by all means don't hesitate and tell him, because if you two have that level of understanding, and if he really cares about you as a friend and can't bare losing you, then he won't let something like you having a crush on him get in the way of things, and he'll be very supportive through it all.
I did the same thing with my friend, he was my best friend for 2-3 years, and i started feeling something for him, i tried to let it go, or get busy with other stuff, i even pulled away for a while, but ended up falling more in love with him, then after a very long year of consulting everybody around me, i got to the conclusion that i should tell him, so i did, and he was great about it, he told me that he loved me deeply but only as a friend, and that he's willing to do whatever he could to help me through this, and that he would understand if i wanted some time away from him. eventually i got over it in a very short time, and we're still great friends.
I still believe that i did the right thing, because i needed an answer, i needed to know if i should continue with this or move on, and believe me, once you get your answer you'll be VERY relieved, whether he loves you back or not.
Hope this helps, good luck with everything :)
Let us know what you decide to do eventually

I was best friends with my guy friend for over 3 1/2 years and of course probably like most girls. You spend enough quality time with someone like that you get to know them and eventually like them. Well like you I was scared to say anything for fear it might ruin what we have as friends, so I was patient and hinted here and there how I felt and finally in January he called saying we needed to talk. Well we met up and he was like I'm pretty sure I know how you feel and I think I'm finally ready to let you know I feel the same.

So we decided to start dating and it's been wonderful! I'm so glad we finally took the chance to see if it would work. And because of how we are together and everything we have people from his family, my family, and friends asking us... so what's next? When are you all gonna get married, etc??

Sometimes good things come when you least expect them... the relationship you may have always wanted is sitting right in front of you in the form of your best guy friend. It just needed the time to show you it was special and could work.

So I'd say go for it!! Give it a chance!!! Trust me I'm extremely happy I did! :) Hope this helps. :)

Im not sure if this will help, but the opposite (kind of) happened to me. My best friend, a guy, told me that he liked me after all of my family and friends told me he did. I was telling everyone I didnt like him like that, turns out I was just in denial. We are still together 5 years later. I would wait for the right moment and tell him, if hes a great friend but not into you like that, I would think (hopefully) that he would let you down nicely and it wouldnt ruin your friendship. And if he agrees, then something great may come from it! Good luck!!