Okay ladies I am hoping you can give me some helpful advice. This is a tough one. A few months ago my fiance and I were feeling overwhelmed with a lot of things and fighting often so we decided to take a break. He's in the service so he was to work in another town, which helped quite a bit with the initial "break." We still hung out, did date nights, talked often. Things actually started to get much better so we decided we were back on. He did mention to me that he had spoken/hung out with another girl while he was away working. I was very hurt and upset by this, but he was honest and that helped. Things had been going amazingly well up until a month ago. I found out she is pregnant. She is about 3 months along now and he constantly swears to me that he wants us to be together that he loves me and doesn't want to be with her, but wants to do what is right for the baby. I am not unreasonable, but I am being torn a part in this. Things will be going great then he has to go to an appt. with her and we fight that entire day. I know people can be together when they have kids with other people, but this is one big emotional roller coaster. I don't question that he loves me, but I never thought I would be in this situation. Someone, anyone that can give me some ideas or great advice I would more than appreciate it!