GirlsGuideTo | Question: I don't know how or what I...

I don't know how or what I feel anymore. I'll develop an attraction for someone & maybe even a bit of affection, but it always fades away so abruptly. I just wake up one morning, feeling completely different towards a person that I was once greatly attracted to. For the longest time, there has been this person that I have the most severe attraction towards & affection for, but I don't know where we stand right now. I've tried to let go of them so I can just be, but I've failed every time. Should I tell this person the impact that they have on me & try to work things out, or should I try to leave them be again & live my life as though the feelings are nonexistent?

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Posted by Anonymous on March 20, 2012 at 8:12 PM

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I know with myself when I don't know what I think or feel anymore and am confused it is offten because i still like the guy and or am starting to like the guy and I don't want to like him or I am not sure how thing will go, or work out.

Posted by Anonymous on March 20, 2012 at 8:09 PM

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I agree with the top...this has happened to me and us girls may think that we are giving off signals that we like guys, but most guys are stupid and they don't get that we like them. Be the one to reach out and tell him you like him the worst he can do is tell you he does not like you. I have had this happen to me and well I told the guy that I like him and we have a thing and well I thought the worst was to come but I am glad that I told him.

Posted by Callie Wyatt on January 17, 2012 at 9:04 PM

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I would tell them what's going on. It sounds like you're either getting bored too quickly and not trying to work through things when the "flame" dims or that person just isn't the one for you.