Question: My boyfriend and I have been together...
Posted by Anonymous on March 16, 2012 at 9:44 AM
A while later...Now I'm constantly fighting with him because we spend no time whatsoever with each other. He's always at his friend's house. He texts me, but that's not the same as in-person quality time. Now he has a job, but after he gets home from his job I sit around waiting for a phone call -- only to receive a text from his friend's house. I miss those FB statuses and feel left out when all my friends get one from their bf/gf.
I feel ignored and neglected. And I feel stupid for feeling that. I feel like all his friends think of me as a bitch because he's always saying, "I can't, she'll get mad at me," rather than, "I can't, I want to spend time with my lady." It's like he doesn't want to spend time with me.
Whenever I try to tell him how I feel about how he words things to his friends and how I feel like he's always ditching me, it turns into a big argument. I can't tell him how I feel without him saying, "I know blah blah blah," and walking all over my personal words. The least I ask for in the end is for an apology and things to change, but when he goes to apologize I feel like he's being cocky.
I really don't want to break up with him over something I feel can be worked out, but honestly don't know what the heck to do. Ya know? Any words of advice?