Question: Hi Ladies, I have a problem. I...
Posted by Anonymous on June 24, 2012 at 6:01 PM
I have been with my current boyfreind for 2 year and I do love him. He's even started talking about marriage. We get on well and can communicate, it's the best relationship I could hope for. But my problem involves another man.
Before I met my current boyfreind I had a string of one night stands, and enjoyed my single life immensly. But there was one guy I really liked and he and I had a flirtation going on, but nothign ever came of it. I just assumed he never felt the same until one night we went on a date. It seemed to go well, we even went back to his place. But after he had some performance issues, and we didn't go out again. I just let it go, assuming he wasn't interested or maybe was embarrassed, I did talk to him but there was never any indication that we would go for a second date.
It was a few months later I met my now boyfeind and have been very happy with him, but I still have thoughts about the other guy, and wonder what could have been. I still also feel attracted to him as well as my bf. But I can't help but wonder if its just that I don't know what could have been or if there was something real between us. I feel like I'm betraying my bf thinking like this and I no longer talk to him. I'm not sure if its just a crush, since these feelings have been there since I first met the guy.
Thanks for listening. If any one has some advice I'd love to hear it.