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Question: I'm not sure what to exactly do....

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Posted by Anonymous on June 25, 2012 at 7:16 PM

I'm not sure what to exactly do. My friend and her husband (who are newly married) are moving out of state for grad school, and it's making her nervous. But she keeps on saying things like,"So who's not going to be my friend anymore," and asking my friends and I if we're still her friend since she's moving away from us. And like I said, I know she's really nervous about moving because this is the first time she and her husband will be living on their own. So it's a huge step for the both of them. Plus, they have a bunch of other things to think about as well.

I've even told her that even though I'd miss her, that making a new chapter in her life is a good thing. Especially since she had just gotten accepted into this college, which she had been trying to do for months.

All in all, I need some help on what else I can say to her to make her know that I'm going to be her friend, no matter where she goes. I want to say the right thing, because I'm scared she'll take it the wrong way. So what should I say?

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  • Posted by Anonymous on June 26, 2012 at 8:16 AM
My bestie moved 5 hours away to live at the beach and set up her own chocolate shop. I made the 6hour train ride at the weekend to see her! We speak on the phone and she face time's and skpes ppl! I know its a scary thing moving away and not having ur mate on ur doorstep but u always have the phone!! She also needs to grow up a little and realise her comments about who's not my friend anymore are a little childish! Its not just her who will be affected - but her best friend too!! Xx
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