Question: To be totally honest, I'm a shy...
Posted by Anonymous on July 19, 2012 at 7:28 PM
This guy and I met at a concert we went to with a bunch of our mutual friends. We had seen each other around, but he had never spoken to me before (and vice versa). He messaged me on FB and started texting. Our friendship took flight. We've been talking for the past 2 1/2 months, and we've been on a couple dates. It's still at that awkward silent stage of dating, where we both don't really know what to say...We do have a lot in common, and I truly think the awkward stage will pass. I know I'm really interested in him, and I THINK he's interested in me, why else would he text me every single day?
Recently we went hiking, (awkwardness still existing) and I texted him afterwards that day and we talked as usual. The next day he didn't text me. Same with the next. And the next. It's been 4 days and he hasn't texted me! Or replied to my texts! Should I think he's not interested?
And if it's just some misunderstanding, and if we do end up going on another (hopefully not awkward!) date, should I make a move? Or at least tell him how I feel?
Is it okay for me to make the first move?