GirlsGuideTo | Question: A few days ago, my best friend...

A few days ago, my best friend "called off" our friendship because I told her something she couldn't (or didn't want to) see about her boyfriend and then she flipped at me. Granted, I probably could have handled the situation better, but it was something she needed to know. She's been my friend for so long, pretty much since college, but it seems like every month we have some new fight over something stupid and I dont know what to do anymore. Please help me! I don't want to throw away a friendship with her, but it's stressing me out so much.

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Posted by Anonymous on July 30, 2012 at 10:56 AM

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Honestly, if you're fighting every month and it's stressing you out, why do you want to save the friendship? It sounds like a toxic relationship for both of you and you don't need that unhappiness in your life. If you really want to reconcile with your friend, I would give her some space. Leave her alone for a week or so. Then start to text or call her again and make it clear that you are sorry that you hurt her by what you said, but it wasn't your intention and you stand by what you said. Then all you can do is be the best friend you know how to be and see if she changes her mind. But like I said, it sound like she's not the best friend for you. Good luck!