Question: Hey Girls! So I basically wanted to...

I can totally relate to this. I fell hard for a guy I've known all my life. We reconnected over the summer during college and became close enough that he asked me to his military ball our senior year. He is absolutely perfect and is the only guy I have ever imagined being with the rest of my life. However...he is in the military. Meaning I would have to give up my career goals and move with him wherever he is stationed.

It was really hard for me but since we came to the conclusion together we both have gone our own way. I would not say I am completely over him, but I know he will always have a place in my heart and I will never forget the special times we shared.

So if you want my advice...consider if you guys would ever cross paths again (as in a really good chance of it). If so, consider how long you would want to wait for this guy. If you know that there is no chance (like me), give yourself some time to relax your emotions and get yourself involved in some new hobbies to take your mind off the situation. You'll be fine :)

and if he does feel the same u can come back and be a couple

and if he does feel the same u can come back and be a couple

honestly, i think you should let the crush go. obviously, still be his friend, but moving is a great chance to have a whole new start. you'll never meet someone who truly wants to be with you if you're holding on to someone else. i know that it's hard, i've totally been there and being alone in a new place is super tough. but it's totally worth it. good luck, hun. i'm sure it'll work out. :)