Question: Hey beautiful ladies! I have this really...

I honestly don't think guys know what they are getting themselves into when they join dating sites. I think sometimes when something great happens, it freaks them out and they act irrationally. Other times, I feel like guys join just to get some attention. Not necessarily sexual attention but they just desire to be around a female. Just think of him as practice!

Don't take it personally!

Honestly, this sounds exactly like what my ex was doing to the "other woman" when he was cheating on me with her (according to what she told me and the messages she showed me). Even if it's nothing like that, if he wanted to spend time with you, he would respond. I'd say run as fast as you can. He's just like my ex - lots of great traits, but there's a deal breaker in there, too.

To the person who posted the above comment, i find it rude to steal other peoples comments from facebook with out acknowledging them. I posted This on facebook Today, but thought i would post it in the comment area as well :

I just had to deal with this in a guy I thought would be my next bf, we were great together, had a blast hanging out when we did, but when i would text him, he would take hours to respond. I thought maybe he was just busy, but when we hung out in person i noticed him running to his phone to answer a text when the rest of his friends texted him, so why was he so slow to answer mine. I assumed that maybe, he wasnt as in to me as I was in to him. So i stopped texting him, i started to feel like i was annoying him, or nagging when all i wanted to do was chat and get to know him more. I confronted him about it he said i was needy, insecure, and overbearing........ I sent him like 3 texts a day.......I would just take it as hes not interested. As much as it hurts, and man i cried. Just have to let it go sweetie, a relationship is worth building, when you dont feel like i have to pull teeth to talk to them. They would be happy responding, and chatting without being afraid to be the " nag". Relax hun. Mr right is out there! Let me add something else, your going to drive your self crazy assuming what hes doing, esp when he isnt responding to a simple text. If hes working, then maybe hes busy there. The Worst thing you can do, is just assume its you. Some people think that a relationship is one sided " well if he likes me, he will text me/call me/ chase me" Men dont like to chase, they give up and they figure your uninterested. You cant force a relationship between two people who are unable to open up. The first dates should be about communicating, that does include texting, and phone calls, and spending time together. You did your part, be open to the relationship, but dont put all your eggs in the basket. Let him get to know you, without you having to " sell " yourself in a nonsexual way. LEt him want to learna bout you, not give all your information out at once. Im done LOL If you do need to talk, you can always message me. :) Good luck sweetie

I just had to deal with this in a guy I thought would be my next bf, we were great together, had a blast hanging out when we did, but when i would text him, he would take hours to respond. I thought maybe he was just busy, but when we hung out in person i noticed him running to his phone to answer a text when the rest of his friends texted him, so why was he so slow to answer mine. I assumed that maybe, he wasnt as in to me as I was in to him. So i stopped texting him, i started to feel like i was annoying him, or nagging when all i wanted to do was chat and get to know him more. I confronted him about it he said i was needy, insecure, and overbearing........ I sent him like 3 texts a day.......I would just take it as hes not interested. As much as it hurts, and man i cried. Just have to let it go sweetie, a relationship is worth building, when you dont feel like i have to pull teeth to talk to them. They would be happy responding, and chatting without being afraid to be the " nag". Relax hun. Mr right is out there!