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How do I get back my boyfriend's attention? We've been together for about 3 months, but were friends and casually dated for awhile before that. He already means a lot to me and I obviously don't want to lose him as a friend or boyfriend. But...things seem to be going a little stale. We've had "discussions" about some of our issues (Example: The weed he smokes -- he knows I don't like it and he's agreed to never smoke it in front of me), but now his attention seems to be elsewhere and we definitely don't talk as much. Is this just a little rut or does it sound like something is really wrong? I want to make this work, help me!

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Posted by Anonymous on July 27, 2012 at 7:30 PM

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Try to remember what brought you guys together in the first place.
What kind of crazy weird cute names did you guys call each other? (If there were any).
Bring up old memories and moments, like "remember when..." blahblahblah.
One night just get dressed up, for no reason, walk around his apartment and remind him why you caught his eye in the first place. Guys need some visuals every now and then.

I don't really know what else to say, I hope this help a little bit.
Good luck!