How do I get back my boyfriend's attention? We've been together for about 3 months, but were friends and casually dated for awhile before that. He already means a lot to me and I obviously don't want to lose him as a friend or boyfriend. But...things seem to be going a little stale. We've had "discussions" about some of our issues (Example: The weed he smokes -- he knows I don't like it and he's agreed to never smoke it in front of me), but now his attention seems to be elsewhere and we definitely don't talk as much. Is this just a little rut or does it sound like something is really wrong? I want to make this work, help me!