Question: My ex and I stopped talking a...

i just never give guys a second chance; mostly because hey, here's the deal: you got one chance. there was a reason you broke up. why deal with variations of the same problem over and over and over again just to subject yourself to heartbreak? I, personally, think its just better to move on with your life. there are better people out there. there are.

I've had that, and i changed myself for him. It never ended up working but i was happier for four more months. It wasn't worth it. I still do miss him of course if you truly love someone personally I think that you will never stop loving someone, but you'll find somone who is just right for you. Don't go back.

me & my boy friend just broke up 1 week ago i left him coz iw as unhappy he love me so much & he was so faithful,,but we used to fight on every single thing,,after 3 years i realized that this will never work,,so i took my decision,the first 3 days i felt pain that i never felt before but finally i knew that was supposed to happen even earlier,,,he is too much in pain but this is much better for him coz it's unfair to stay wiz him while i know i'll never love him the same way he do,,,IF u realy love him that u cant imagine ur self with someone else give him another chance and accept after adding ur rules through ur relation,,,if u don't love him that much & u just want to come back coz he is in pain & he needs u never come back together coz loves kills no body!! & in my own opinion when breakup & come back things never comes the same way,,,so i guess u must get ur self a new life....GOOD luck!

stop it... move on with your new life...

why don't u just say no??? don't give him a chance to hurt u again. hold out for the right guy :)

If you want to give him a chance, do a sort of test drive thing where you guys are just dating a bit and make sure he really, really, likes you. But remember you guys broke up for a reason.

dont do it :( if hes hurt u a lot b4 hes probably gonna do it again

No. If he's hurt you once he'll hurt you again. And there'll be too much bad feeling from before. Going back is NEVER a good idea.

Don't do it, find a guy who is worth beeing your boyfriend. Not someone who is doesn't stay with you if he is not sure it will work out. It takes work to be in a relationship, you can't stop if things get a little bad.;-)

it seems that exs always decide to say "i want to come back" when you are dating or become interested in a new guy lol. I say it really depends on how he hurt you, how much you still care for him, if you are really sure that he will give you his all as you have done for him, and that he will actually do what he says he will. Do test it out first and talk to him about what is on your mind before taking another risk with him though.