Signs He Likes You... But How Much?

Sat, 04 Feb 2012 14:38:50 -0500

If you are dating a new guy and you ask is he into me, it's what we all do. We have all heard the phrase he is just not that into you and that is not fun. If you are liking him, you of course hope that he is into you. I am going to tell you some sure signs that he is into you. If you have a guy doing the following things, chances are good, he is into you.

- He calls when he says he will. This means he doesn't call hours later or the next day with an excuse. 

- He takes you places, meaning it's not your place or his. If it's always your place or his, you might be in a friends with benefits relationship. 

- He asks about your life and wants to know how you day is

 - He takes you out and is willing to pick you up, you don't have to drive to see him always

- He offers to help you with things, change a light bulb, look at your tires, add a quart of oil 

- He compliments you and seems proud of you

- He wants you to meet his friends and family 

- He wants to meet your friends and family 

- He sticks around after sex 

- He texts you at random, just to say hi.

 - He picks on you and teases you. Think about grade school boys pulling your pigtails in the sandbox.

 - He will stop by even if it only means seeing you for a few minutes. 

- He spends time with you on the weekends, not just weekdays 

- He doesn't call you for booty calls, he respects you enough not to ring your phone in the middle of the night

 - Your dates don't revolve around sex, he is fine with just snuggling

If your guy is doing most of the above things, that's a sign he is into you. If he isn't you may just be an option in his book. If he isn't making you a priority in his life, then you may not be his idea of girlfriend material. 

Guys have different types of girls in their lives.

Booty call girl. The girl who they know will always be around to hang out and/or have sex without him having to do any work but send a simple text that says, "hey what are you doing?" "want to hang out?" or "come over". This is the good-time girl and this girl will never be anything more than that.

Friend with Benefits. This is the friend that they have sex with that will never make it to girlfriend status, well because she settled for less and didn't demand more. Friends with benefits is a lost cause and rarely progress to more than heartache.

Filler Girl. A girl they do like, but don't see themselves in a relationship with. They like her but something about her does not inspire him to move her to girlfriend role. She is only filling a position and giving him something to do until he finds someone more interesting. 

Girlfriend. This is the one he adores and can't wait to see. This is the one you want to be. This girl has done something or there is just something about her that inspires him to take her off the market and claim her as his own. If he is into you, chances are good, he has made you his girlfriend. 

So which girl are you? You definitely don't want to be the booty call girl. But maybe he's shown some signs he's into you; however, if you can't tell for sure just remember you can't force a guy to like you.

Your question

Tue, 31 Jan 2012 09:53:35 -0500

Okay, this a question about how to move on. I was with a guy for only a little over 3 months, but before that we were close friends. I fell for him harder than anybody I've ever fell for. The biggest problem is that we were too much a like, both really stubborn and struggled to deal with our emotions, so we ended up arguing a lot. So he broke up with me before we had the chance to really figure out exactly why it all went crazy, but because we didn't want to throw away our friendship, we stayed friends. It's been almost 2 months and in the last two weeks I've been increasingly more upset over our break up. When we broke up, I was upset, but not all that much. I hardly cried, I didn't get angry and we were getting along quite happily.

Then suddenly, the whole thing seemed to hit me last weekend and I'm not sure how to deal with it. I've always been the kind of person that moves on super quickly, but this time I can't. I keep thinking about things we should be doing together, how much I miss him and every time I see him , I spend the rest of the day thinking about him non-stop. How on Earth can I move on?

Cutting him out of my life is not an option, because not only do we rely on each other's friendship...we also work together. I just need some advice, how do you move on from what I believe to be the love of my life?

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Mon, 23 Jan 2012 16:14:47 -0500

I was dating a guy for almost 2 years and we broke up but we are still talking and want to be together again. I want to be officially dating him but he "doesn't want to date me but wants to be with me and only me". In your opinion what is the difference between dating someone and being with someone exclusively?

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Wed, 18 Jan 2012 18:34:46 -0500

I have one of the most common questions a girl would ever ask . I met a guy at a friend's party (friend's friend) and we kind of hooked up. When I left, we did not exchange numbers or make plans to catch up again. But now I feel I would like to know him better..should I make the first move? Or is that never a good idea?

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Mon, 16 Jan 2012 14:56:39 -0500

I don't know how or what I feel anymore. I'll develop an attraction for someone & maybe even a bit of affection, but it always fades away so abruptly. I just wake up one morning, feeling completely different towards a person that I was once greatly attracted to. For the longest time, there has been this person that I have the most severe attraction towards & affection for, but I don't know where we stand right now. I've tried to let go of them so I can just be, but I've failed every time. Should I tell this person the impact that they have on me & try to work things out, or should I try to leave them be again & live my life as though the feelings are nonexistent?

Your question

Sun, 08 Jan 2012 19:34:17 -0500

Why is it that guys seem to think that I'll want to be the other woman? I don't dress overly sexy, I'm flirty but not in a sleazy way, and although I have chosen to take a break from dating in no way am I desperate! How is it that they seriously think it's okay to hook up with or "date" some other girl when they have a girlfriend at home?

Top 10 signs he's a douchebag just by his Facebook profile

Thu, 08 Dec 2011 17:03:22 -0500

Wondering if that new guy is good or bad news? His Facebook will tell you everything you need to know…

1. Check out his friend list. Does he have thousands of friends and 90% of them are chicks with names like Candi, Bambi, and Chastity? (These ladies will usually have profile pics of themselves in bikinis or lingerie, by the way.) If so, he's either a player or a club promoter. Both should be "deal-breakers."

2. What does his wall look like? If girls are constantly posting flirtatious things like “It was sooooo good to see you last night,” “I’m pissed you forgot the massage oil ;),” and “xoxoxoxo,” you can pretty much rest assured he’s a douchebag.

3. He uses improper grammar and spelling in his status updates. There’s a difference between “it’s” and “its.” And the word “you’re” exists. (Writing “your” is not always proper!) If you find yourself tempted by a guy who is grammatically challenged, remember the words of comedian Ron White: "You can't fix stupid." No matter how hot he is.

4. Speaking of his status updates… Is he constantly posting what he’s doing every minute of every day? If he really thinks people care what he’s eating for dinner, he’s a total narcissist.

5. Does he have “It’s complicated” as his relationship status? Translation: I bang a lot of chicks but I have one chick who I bang more than the others.

6. Are a majority of his pics clearly taken with his phone in front of the bathroom mirror? This either means he has no friends or he loves looking at himself. Or both.

7. Is he online and available to chat 24/7? If so, you’ve gotta ask yourself if he (a) has a job, (b) has a life, and (c) has any other social outlet besides FB.

8. Does he “check in” to a different place every night of the week. When I see a guy who’s constantly “checking in,” I always wonder if he’s trying to brag about how busy he is or if he’s looking for someone to meet up with him. Because he’s alone.

9. He goes through your friend list and adds your hot friends. This is the social media equivalent of hitting on your girlfriends while you’re all out together one night.

10. He sends you a message that says, “My wife and I like your pictures. Can we meet?” Swear to God this happened to me.

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Your question

Tue, 06 Dec 2011 12:11:37 -0500

It's strange. How fast feelings can change, how you can fall out of love and fall into it again. It's strange for me, as I've never been 'in love'. All my relationships have always ended badly, being left for another girl, cheated on, abusive relationship, etc. It's so difficult for me to want to fall in love when I've always been hurt. I keep my emotions so boiled up and under lock and chain it's impossible for me to like someone more then just ''a crush''. I'm always so afraid that everything that has happened in the past will happen again in the future, and I never allow myself to get to close to someone.

But a few weeks again, I met this amazing guy, he's sweet, sensitive and respectful which I am not used to. At all. He treats me like a princess. And it slightly scares me. Well, a few things scare me about him.
1) I'm worried he's hiding who he really is.
2) he's gonna get bored or find another girl
3) just get up and leave.

I'm not the easiest person to date. I know this, I keep closed, I do not show to much ''love''. And I'm not to touchy feely. I guess so to say. I am self conscious and have trust issues.

He's respectful as for he doesn't just want to sleep with me. He told me he wants to wait. Make sure this is gonna go somewhere. (We started dating not too long ago). I'm just so scared. As this relationship is gonna mostly be long distance. As we both mostly work out of town. I'm always so worried I'm gonna get a call and him saying (it's not working). He's one of those guys that I fell for so quickly. But I'm trying to catch my heart again and stop myself.

I really don't know what to do anymore. I'm confused, hurting and just not sure if we jumped into this relationship to quickly...

15 Subtle Signs He's Bad News

Wed, 30 Nov 2011 20:07:42 -0500

A man showing these signs will most likely be found out to be a total douchebag (usually along the lines of being super controlling). So if you notice your guy exhibiting these signs either A. bring them to his attention, tell him to stop and if he doesn't end it ASAP or B. Just run away. Fast! If you ignore these now TRUST that you'll end up being miserable, breaking up with him anyway, or in the worst case losing yourself in the end. REMEMBER: No man worth keeping is worth losing yourself!

#1 He puts you down
He puts you down when you do something by yourself and makes it look like you can’t do anything without his help. He picks flaws in anything you do, and helps you do a better job. He disrespects you and anything you do, and makes it seem like you need him to become a better person. This will eventually make you lose your own confidence, and wait for his reassurance and help each time you try something new.
#2 He doesn’t like it when you go out with your friends
Does he say your friends are a bad influence or does he think one of your guy friends are hitting on you? He starts to choose your friends and tells you whom to hang out with. Eventually you’d find yourself losing touch with most of your friends.
#3 He’s insecure and doubts you
He plays mind games and tries to trap you with tricky, unnecessary questions. He tries confusing you into giving him contradictory answers which makes you feel like you are the bad person in the relationship.
#4 He wants to know everything about you
He hates secrets. He tells you all his passwords and secrets, and expects you to do the same, be it your email, twitter or facebook account. He wants to know every single detail of your daily life, and when he finds out that you haven’t told him a few things, he acts pained and hurt.
#5 He stalks you
He wants you to keep in touch with him very often, and he wants to be informed about everything you’re doing even if you’re just stepping out of office for a coffee break with your friends.
#6 He doesn’t like it when you have fun without him
This is rather simple and easy to see. If you go out with your own friends for a night out, he sulks or acts grumpy for a while and makes up another excuse about why he’s pissed off. Sometimes, he may even blame you for his mood and use an excuse like “you didn’t call me enough” or “you ignored me”.
#7 He cripples you
He looks for any excuse to prove a point. If something offends or bothers him, he’ll wait for a perfect excuse to bring that conversation up and prove his point. If your friend gets into a car crash, he may gloat about it and make it a point to tell you why he doesn’t like you travelling with that guy. He loves saying “I told you so” and makes you feel lost without his guidance in life.
#8 He’s jealous
This can seem cute at first, but over time, his jealousy could turn into an obsession that borders on insanity.
#9 You can’t do anything important without him
When you achieve something without his help, he treats it like it’s no big deal. He behaves like your promotions and personal achievements are not big milestones in your life. On the other hand, he’ll consider you leaving your friends for him a bigger achievement that can help the relationship.
#10 He’s never at fault
But you always are. Even if he meets with an accident on the way to work, he blames it on someone else or the big fight both of you had that morning. But if you make a mistake, he’ll make sure he constantly reminds you about the incident over and over again.
#11 He has different principles for you and him
He doesn’t like it when you hang out with a few of your friends. But when he meets his own friends, even the ones you dislike, he makes it seem like you’re the one misunderstanding his friends. He creates his own rules for himself, and imposes different rules on you.
#12 He takes decisions in your life
He may seem like a chivalrous knight who’s always there to help you make up your mind, but very soon you’d see that he’d actually be the one manipulating you and making all the decisions for you. And even if you do make a decision yourself, he picks flaws in it and shows you how wrong you are even if you know you’re right.
#13 He breaks down when you take a stand
This is a sick trait of an emotionally controlling boyfriend, but it’s one that’ll always show up when you take a stand. Whenever you take a stand or refuse to listen to him, he may argue with you. But when he can’t get it his way, he may break down and cry about how you don’t understand him anymore. What happens eventually is that you’d end up giving in for his happiness.
#14 You lose your freedom
You find yourself asking for his permission to do anything. You assume he’s the best thing that’s happened in your life. All of a sudden, you’re convinced that he’s your personal god and the one who’s always right.
#15 You no longer know what you want
Your whole life revolves around him. He makes you believe that he’s the one who can make you happy and no one else. And surprisingly, you’d start believing it too. His happiness becomes yours, his wants are your wants, and his likes become your likes. Your whole world will start to revolve around him, and nothing else.
Source: http://www.lovepanky.com/women/understanding-men/15-signs-of-a-controlli...

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Wed, 30 Nov 2011 10:06:04 -0500

What is wrong with me? 10 years ago I met a man, I remember it like it was yesterday... He looked at me and I immediately felt butterflies and giddy like I was in high school again. I spent 4 years feeling like a high school girl every time I looked at him. Finally we ended up dating for a year but I spent the whole year worrying about losing him and evidently pushed him away and we broke up. (I was completely heart broken) Fast forward 10 years and I can honestly say I have not gone a single day since the day I met him without thinking about him and missing him. I still see him from time to time in my town ( we don't speak, I clam up) but when I do I get the same old feelings just as strong as they always were. What is wrong with me? Am I addicted to the feeling? Do I still love him?

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